Girlfriend and I met online. After one month of chatting we decided to meet up and go on a date.
Following on from that date we talked everyday and met met up 5 or 6 times over the course of 6 weeks. After the 6 weeks we planned to sleep together on a Sunday night. That Sunday morning she cancelled saying something came up and she couldn't meet me. I didn't question it and said it was fine and that we could reschedule. She barely talked to me over the next few days which I found odd. I asked her then if she was still interested in seeing me to which she said she was. That following weekend we slept together and preceded to become boyfriend & girlfriend. 7 months on she revealed to me that she slept with a guy at a house party that Saturday night 7 months previous and that she was drunk and it had been random.
Logically I understand it was before we were exclusive but emotionally feeling hurt and can't stop thinking about it.
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I understand you are upset, I would be too. Not very nice from her for sure. I wouldn't personally date that kind of girl. But I wouldn't say she did anything wrong either.
Imagine what you would do in her situation. Let's say you are seeing some girl on a same degree you were, and then there was an opportunity to have sex with another girl, would you? If the answer is yes, I think that should free yourself being hurt by it. If you wouldn't, then the only way would be to break up with her. Yea you could forget it, but it would always creep back in your mind.0
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