Hello , so I've been dating this guy for 9 months now and he's always been pretty respectful and a sweetheart. But today we were talking and due to some miscommunication he thought I was saying some disrespectful things about his family. My comments were not about his family AT ALL. But before I can say any thing else , he started cussing at me. I. e. "What the fuck is wrong with you & dont u dare say anything like that about my family" blah blah. I explained to him that I wasn't talking about his family and all he said was "oh" . My feeling got hurt and I want a apology for the unnecessary blow up but he doesn't see why it's that big of a deal. Am I right to feel disrespected & upset over it or should I just over it? He's never yelled or cursed at me like that before.
Most Helpful Guy
Stop being so emotional and ranting here on GaG. Every couple has fights at some point, you guys even managed to stay without one for 9 months, means he's a good guy. If I had any reason to think someone said rubbish about my family, they would have something coming to them. I would imagine anybody would do the same.
Your words clearly weren't aimed towards his family, this is a clear case of miscommunication. If you really want an apology, how about you sit down and talk to your boyfriend and settle things with him. I don't understand why women believe men should be able to read minds, ranting here on GaG won't solve anything. Go talk to him.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well he did think u disrespected his family. This isint about ur right and I'm wrong or vise versa. U both should sit down, calm down, talk about it. See his POV, tell ur POV and clear up the misunderstanding. Maybe say "hey I know I though I was speaking ill about it family but I really wasn't, I was (and say ur POV)" and proceed with "and I understand why u would have though I was speaking about ur family, but that was not at all what happened." And then after the talk, just make up a middle ground of not judging the other without proof and clarification.0