I'm tired of no guys asking me out?
What Guys Said 25
Well turn the tables then, and you ask them out.. a lot of guys like when a women does that.. I know I do.. it is not something that happens for all my dates.. but a couple of times they have asked me out, just shows that all is fair in the romance department.. have a great day0
Get a gym membership.
Get on the treadmill.
Bang some weights. Back squats, deadlifts.
Hit up some sprints.
Watch your diet and calculate your calories.
Progress and in about 6 months, just watch more and more guys flock to you ;)0
If guys you don't like or who don't impress you asked you out, how would you react?1
you're likely not putting yourself in situations where you're appreciated. If you are good at art, do art things and you may attract a guy who finds that attractive. The essence of that vs changing how you look to be fake for fake guys, is you'll attract someone to what makes you valuable vs something fabricated and generic, despite being aesthetically pleasing this season.1
And I'm tired of women rejecting me. Guess we're in the same boat0
So why don't you go ask some guy that you like to go out with you?2
they don't ow it to you.0
That's a touch vague. Can you provide perhaps a bit more detail?0
why don't YOU start asking them out exactly? you're not a "strong independent woman" ? You wait until a guy asks you out? ... if you don't take matters into your own hands all i can say is : keep on waitin'0
Why would they not ask you? Maybe you lack enough friends or don't use social sites?0
Stop being a biotch.
What Girls Said 11
So ask them out4
If you're a decently average girl when it comes to attractiveness and you're not getting asked out, you're either not spending enough time in places where guys will ask you out or you're coming off as unapproachable. Body language has a lot to do with guys approaching you. If you sit in the club with your nose in your phone the whole time, guys are going to think you're busy or have a boyfriend, and they won't approach her.2
Im sure that isn't a good feeling, but your time will come when you will get asked out to someone who will treat you nicely and isn't just using you for sex. Just because a guy asked out a female doesn't mean that they will last forever or will be in a relationship. He may just be looking for sex then off to someone else.1
Just curious, why don't you want to ask guys out?0
Then stay at home with friends0
If you're pretty and no guy asks you out, it's because they think you're way out of their league.
If you're not pretty and no guy asks you out, it's because they're interested enough.
In any case, if you really want to date a guy and have a guy whom you're interested in him, ask him out or at least give him a hint that you're interested. Otherwise, the situation won't ever change.0
Welcome to the club, and this is coming from a person that actually approaches guy.0
Do you go to parties? Are you out with friends every weekend, be it to a bar, a pub or whatever? Do you go to school, college, work, or do activities where you can meet people? Do you do the bare minimum with your appearance (e. g. hygiene, keep your hair cute, wear a little makeup/cute clothes, not be fat etc)? If you answered yes to all that than there shouldn't be a problem. The first 3 ones is where I was going (terribly) wrong and it changed a lot for better once I started realizing nobody would ask me out while I was sitting on my ass at home watching reality tv.0
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