I recently met this guy at my university. We have been talking casually. I'd like to ask him out. There's not been much flirting though. Should I flirt more and then ask him out? Or could I just ask him out without flirting first?
Should I ask him out?
What Guys Said 23
you can go ahead, that's actually something that not many girls have the courage to do. However, a tip to help you out so you don't get shocked or embarrassed like the first time i asked a girl out. Always expect a rejection, no matter how much you thought they were into you. So prepare an answer incase he rejects you. When the girl rejected me when i asked here out (i was like 95% sure she would accept) i was shocked and caught offguard, my face became red and i got 10 times more nervous and didn't know what to do.1
He's a guy, you don't need more flirting haha just ask him out, the flirting will hopefully happen during the date.1
If he is flirting back then you don't need to flirt more. You know he likes you. Then ask him out. If your not sure if he likes you then talk to him casually and tell him that you like him. Then try to make a date with him.0
feel him out, throw in a question about his girlfriend, see what happens
live by the epic words from the movie out cold
Try to start flirting a lot. If he flirts back then that's great. Then once you guys feel really close and he still doesn't ask you first, you ask him0
Given the insanity of the affirmative consent rules at universities in your country; the antics of lunatics such as Mattress Girl; and the plethora of false campus rape allegations, it would be an extremely unwise young man who had anything to do with fellow (female) students.
That may be why he is interacting with you in the way that you say he is.0
C'mon, what are you waiting for? Go ahead, do it now girl. Be confident and be straight about it, look him in the eye and ask him out right now1
William Blake once said "Better to strangle a babe in the cradle than to nurse an unfulfilled desire". Or words to that effect. Imagine yourself years and years from now. Will you regret having gone for it more, or will you regret not having gone for it more?0
Flirting would let him know you're interested and maybe get him to ask you out. Though that's more like a game tbh. Guys appreciate if you cut the bullshit and give it to them straight.0
You should just ask him out. See if Jen wants to hang out with you. Maybe do a group hangout. Him and your friends0
I personally view flirting as almost useless because people always question it. I say just ask him.1
Just ask him.1
Ask him out. It seems girls rarely ask out guys, but when they do I love it.0
If you like him there's no problem in asking him out. Men in geneal like a woman that has confidence, know what they want and make a move for it. Nothing fancy i hope or he may get the wrong inpression.0
You're obviously shy and its okay. You should flirt a little first so that your nerves can settle down with his in a flirty environment. Because if you asked him out and he said yes, it would be a little awkward since you haven't really done any flirting or teasing.
So Flirt a little, see his response to it, if its positive then great. Give a few days and then ask when the air is clear but be sure to do it.
Good Luck :)0
ask him out0
Ask him out flirting can be hit and miss so that's a definite no sometimes guys like when girls make the first move, but be aware that he may not reciprocate your feelings, this is a smal chance though0
Recently is how long? 1 week?0
Sure. Do it. Do not hesitate.0
I'd say you should just ask him. Just keep two things in mind:
1. make sure he's alone when you ask him
2. don't be too disheartened if he declines0
What Girls Said 5
Go for it1
go for it0
flirt first.. unless you just wanna cut right to it0
ask him out0
Maybe start flirting before you ask him0
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