I'm a 25 year old accountant who recently got back into the dating game after taking time off to pursue my career. I am looking for a long term relationship and I have since made a plenty of fish account and have gone on many dates.
The problem is that I can't catch feelings for any of these girls... I just don't find them interesting in any way... I have gone on I think 8 first dates in the past 3 months and my record so far has been 3 dates total with one girl before I just got so bored that I ghosted. Many times within like 5 minutes I am begging for the date to be over. The one big thing that gets me is that it's impossible to have a decent conversation about anything... really... the conversations seem to quickly revert to "oh well my co-worker did this and Sally said that...". I have even had one case where a girl blew up at me for ignoring her after the date... it's just that I didn't want to lead her on or tell her how boring she was...
Does anyone else (both men and women) feel this way about their dates? Is anyone else experiencing this? What can I do about this?
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I completely understand and agree. it seems like most women I talk to reply with one word answers on the most open of questions. No matter how hard I try and keep a conversation, others can't seem to try and have a two sided conversation with me. I usually end up quitting talking to them before I can even ask them on a date. If that wasn't bad enough, the ones who can keep a conversation are usually the clingly ones. I've had a girl message me 5 times in 10 minutes before I've even had a chance to reply. It's hard to find a woman, I feel like there's no one out there, lol. I've given up for now, hopefully you'll find someone!0