I know that being only nice to girls is not enough to woo them. It has put me in the friend zone several times. They have told me I am a nice guy and a gentleman, but they just saw me as a friend. I have realized that being myself is not good/attractive enough. I do not plan to change, but I obviously need to improve. It seems like I am everybody’s nice friend, but nobody’s nice boyfriend.
Most Helpful Girl
If you're not honest, if you're making efforts to have a certain behavior with the ladies that isn't the one you have with other people, they're going to sense it. It's not a good thing to do, because we know it's a mask, and we need to know about the honest you. The one with faults, who doesn't hide what he thinks because he's "trying to be a gentlemen".
We're not that fragile, and you do yourself a disservice by trying to show a 'perfect side' of yourself we'll know isn't all you have to show.0
Most Helpful Guy
stop trying to woo the girl. Understand they had already decided if they are attracted to you after 10 seconds of meeting you. As long as you don't make any major fuckups on your date you'll be fine.
Be straight about your intentions with them (after a 5-10 minute of casual conversation. you don't wanna come across creepy because you are overtly flirting off the get go)