He likes a part of my body I hate, what do I do?

I've got a big bum. It's like.. Big, soft and round. It's not pretty, it's not enticing. But this guy I'm into - who is massively into gym stuff so you can imagine what his body is like - keeps talking about how much he likes my bum.

I was horrified that anyone had noticed it as I spend a significant amount of time trying to hide its existence. Especially this toned fit guy.

I just dont understand. Should I flaunt my ass now? Should I tone it up to make it perkier - I usually ignore it and just hope it'll disappear with cardio. But if I up my work outs what if it disappears and he won't like it? How do Iearn to like something I hate? And what if if we sleep together and he sees it and it's not what we imagined and he thinks it's gross. I am so freaked out right now.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • are you kidding, a big, round perky ass is the prettiest thing in existance. i'd burry my face and penis there all day long.. .

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    • 10d

      But it's too big - it's not like sexy trust me. I'm short. Not tall and thin with a big perky bum

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    • 8d

      I love you man

    • 8d

      love you back. kardashian, salma hayek, jennifer lopez, do i need to say more? how many women fit that description and they would have all men begging for some... ?

What Guys Said 1

  • He's probably been watching the Kardashians.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Get into therapy because life is too damn short to still have body insecurity in your 30s.

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    • 8d

      Is it?

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    • 1d

      Not that life is too short but that no one has body image issues in their thirties...

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      Did I say "No one has body issues"? Or did I say "You have an unhealthy set of body issues that you need to deal with because you deserve a better life"?

  • Enjoy it.

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    • 8d

      How? I'm terrified

    • 7d

      I'm sorry I didn't give you a better answer. So I used to run and stuff but not activate my flutes which is essential for any running or yoga. After running hills my ass got so bubbly I had to get new pants. It wasn't bigger but higher and firmer.

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      That's a good thing right?

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