Rick and I have been friends for 6 months, we started talking recently. We been dating now for 4 months but it feels longer. We work together and while at work someone comes up to me and tells me “Rick and his ex girlfriend have been getting really close at work and Rick walks her to her car, Rick make sure she has money for lunch, they go to church together and they go to the same gym.” Im shocked but at the same time speechless, This would not be the first time someone at work tried to stir up drama with Rick and I. The first time they told Rick “Did you see how close Kim and John was last night” John has a girlfriend and were friends.
SO I asked Rick and his ex whats going on. She said “Theres nothing to worry about, Rick is a best friend to me.” Rick said “We do go to the same gym and the same church but I don’t walk her to her car nor do I make sure she has money for lunch.”
I said ok. And didn’t speak to him for the rest of the day. I don’t know what to say. His ex girlfriend is 21 ands he's 27.(Im 24) I don’t consider none of my exs my best friend and If I was dating someone I liked I would NOT have my ex around Period! Too much drama over someone when that relationship already failed.
Most Helpful Guy
no need to worry about it. if she was and came back again u have to think of it. it's necessary. but after knowing of u with ur boyfriend if she says nothing to worry then it won't be a problem unless if he was not close to u after. be what u are. he will understand about u. and behave mature of it. good luck.1
Most Helpful Girl
an ex is not a best friend lol but dont believe what the other people is saying especially if they have done it before and it turned out to be lies.
I'd say believe your bf's words that nothing is happening, but don't be blind.
Just don't become a stalker or too clingy because that will only push him away.1