I'm just wondering what or why do guys do this? I understand that you want the woman to be happy but what makes most women happy is if you have faith and build together. How can a woman make you feel secure so that you don't have to look? How can she make you feel confident enough to move forward when you are not quite ready? Are guys only confident when they have it all together? What is wrong with having a little faith? When you are not happy does it block out how you really feel about her making it hard to open up or feel anything for her when you know it's there from the first time you saw her?
Guys, Why do guys who are afraid to commit do serious relationship things with the one they want but still keep their options open?
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I don't plan on getting married anymore, but I'm still interested in long term relationships/word commitment. I don't believe a contract and involving the State, without even mentioning divorce laws, is necesary in any relationship.
Honestly, as long as I trust and see a woman worth of abstaining for, I will. If the relationship is completely fine, we get along and like the company and the sex is great trust me I wouldn't risk losing it. It's hard enough to find girls who are worth it.
Assuming the relationship is going well, the moment a girl starts pushing or asking for marriage despite being aware of what my ideals are then that would be the beginning of the end for me. To me happiness comes by volition and real commitment that doesn't depend on whatba contract says. But that's just me. She's free to walk away anytime or stay as long as she likes if we're good together, I offer that because I want that offered to me too.0
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Sometimes there's just too much uncertainty.0
You know how fast people, in general; lose their attraction?
The only thing that keeps women interested would be if the guy has options, other women... people want what others have... simple.0
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