I just kindly got rejected by a female friend of mine. She made the excuse that things are complicated right now but that it has nothing to do with her ex. I know things ended quite badly with her ex both that was like 4 months ago. I haven't known her for a very long time but we would always text each other and she would tell me a lot of her secrets about her life. We had a lot in common and shared a lot of the same interests and we seemed to be growing closer to each other. She even agreed to watch a romantic movie with me when it comes out so i assumed that she must like me, but as soon as i mentioned the word date, she turned me down.
Girls, has any of you ever rejected a guy only to end up dating him later on if you still remained friends after the rejection?
What Girls Said 2
Yeah she might just need a friend... I had the same situation a while ago!0
What Guys Said 3
Most girls sadly will not date the guy that was their shoulder in their heartbreak. Most likely because women form strong attachments no matter how long they have been away from the other. They usually don't want the memories. There are however many many good women out there, look around without judging to hard, cause the earth is made of precious metals, we just get lost in who wants which kind of metal.1
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I'm gonna tell you this right now:
You are most likely in some kind of blissful denial that helps you cope with the rejection.
In about a couple months, the reality is gonna hit you and hit you hard. And when that happens, the girl is gonna want your attention again.
You may start liking her again and she may act as though she has changed her mind. Don't fall for that.
Not that she's using you or anything, she just wants your attention.
I should know. I've been through this before.
I hope things are different for you two, however.1
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