So this guy is strangely clingy. He makes me miss my ex like crazy because of how open my ex was to everything that I wanted and really supported me no Matter what. This guy is always telling me that if I don't sleep in the same bed as him then he refuses to let me sleep, which to Me sounds a little emotionally abusing. He also, every time he does something wrong says "I don't change" but expects me to if I do something he doesn't like, it doesn't seem fair to me that he tells Me he loves me but for some reason is ok threatening to go to a hotel for the Night and seeing me cry. He doesn't like it when I said if this continues then I have to break up with him cause my health is important to me as I suffer from OCD, anxiety and depression but isn't threatening to leave to a hotel if he doesn't get what he wants sort of the same as threatening to leave him?
Is he emotionally manipulating me?
What Guys Said 1
Just keep replaying "you deserve better" in your mind and just dump him. He can't tell you what to do, this is a free country. If this continues then get a restraining order on him.1
What Girls Said 2
Dump him. 1. Because yeah he's controlling and manipulative, and 2. Because it's not making you happy so why be with him? Don't let him control you.1
leave him... he sounds very manipulating1
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