I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months, at the beginning he was always dressed nicely and seemed washed. Today I called over to his house ( arranged this last night) and his t shirt has stains on it and he smelled a bit musty, there was potato crisps crumbs on sofa and I was hurt at how little effort he made, he joked he had a scented candle in his bedroom but I know this was just a hint about sex, long story short I made an excuse that I had to leave, he is off work this past week and whilst I understand that he is chilling, I think he could be paying attention to being clean and present able, his teeth would be in really bad condition and I'm worried that the honeymoon period may be over and I'm dating a guy who doesn't care.
Most Helpful Guy
Um... he's off work... yea its time to be just a guy...
and im sorry if this comes off as a little sexist and even as im saying it i think it is, but the stereotype is real... guys are gonna be guys, but women are there to make sure that we don't go TOO stupid. So why not just clean all that up for him?
Yes, i know what that sounds like, but i also know what it feels like when a girl comes over and sees im/my place (which it rarely is) is a mess and cleans up a couple things... i could have handled it, but she did...
You won't think this is that sexist when he bows on one knee one day with a diamond... watch.0
Most Helpful Girl
Ummm... he is a man! Shit, you get me on a good day and I will still have crumbs on the sofa! It was his house and he was off work... let him enjoy himself! Obviously, he wanted to see you or you wouldn't have been there. You freaked out and left... that is your fault, not his! I'm not trying to be rude, but what did you expect?0