I'm 18yo, a fresher at university in England. My course is engineering so there aren't many girls, most girls I meet are in night clubs. But I just don't know how to tell if they're into me. I'm also shy and I feel like of I just go up to them and try dance with them then I'll be like all the other creepy guys in the club. Can somebody help me out here?
How can a shy guy tell if a girl is interested in him?
What Girls Said 1
go ask her0
What Guys Said 2
Relax about the creep thing. One girl's opinion of you doesn't matter, and honestly the same behavior is interpreted differently by different people.
They usually like you if they keep eye contact for more than 1 second. They may or may not smile, but if they do smile when you look at them that's definitely a good sign. If they tilt their body away from your direction or their face turns sour when you make eye contact that's a no-go.
When you approach them imagine you're going up to your guy friend. You don't worry if you are creeping out your guy friend or what he thinks of you because you said hi do you? it shouldn't be any different here.
Here are a few do nots:
* Don't get grabby/touchy with the girls under any circumstance. Even a pat on the back that's totally fine in normal environment can come across the wrong way to some because in the clubs they tend to have their guard up.
* Don't say anything overtly sexual to them. If you want them to know you are interested just compliment them on something nonsexual while making long eye contact. they'll get it.2
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