I am dating a guy since 2 months and when he realised that I'm falling in love with him and getting too romantic. He told me that he wants me to bring to reality that he isn't looking for long term relationship and I should know that our relationship has an expiry date. So, I should control my feelings.
And later when I questioned him, " what made him say that to me, is he afraid that I propose him?" . And he replied no, he was just checking if we are on same page.
Should I still date this guy and let myself fall for him?
i really love him but I'm too confused after that day?
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I mean, go ahead and date him, if you really like him! But he's already said that he's not planning to date for too long, so you most likely won't get much out of dating him. It's completely up to you if you want to date him or not. Personally, I wouldn't given this situation, because it's just really suck knowing that he's planning on breaking up with me as soon as we start dating. In the end, there's not really talk much to gain from it. He probably wouldn't have true feelings and probably wouldn't be too affectionate. I'd just pull away early before I went completely head over heels for him... It's hard to say... Because I would still really like him and would want to date him, naturally... Well, I guess I've had a situation like this actually, and with the guy I'm thinking of, yeah, I'd date him in the blink of an eye if he wanted to... Even if I know that he'd break up later. I would just try not to get too attached since you know that he's not planning on sticking around... It's all up to you though, it seems like he's left you with those options. I hope this was helpful 🤗1
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