and I don't mean a stranger I just mean how would you feel about a call or a text kind of out of the blue from someone you flirt with a lot would you like that ?
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It's a mixed bowl my friend.
Of course they would appreciate it if they felt the same way, but then its the aspect of the emotional "umph" behind it. If I was serious with someone and for some reason wanted to say I liked them (no reason to say it...) I would want it to be something better then a random phone call. Maybe during a cuddling session or just somewhere when I can look into their eyes and say it. More provoking then a phone call... but nonetheless appreciated.
Anybody likes to hear they are liked... Common sense.
Also saying you like someone has the potential to ruin built attraction. They want to hear you like them, if you don't that just makes them want it more. Personally I don't like saying that stuff in words, but in many actions and subtleties. This is of course if you don't want anything serious with them and just looking for fun. If you are getting serious, then go ahead... just say it in their presence rather through text/call.1