This doesn't happen often, but I've found at times that I naturally get attached to a girl if we have a lot in common, and she's very attractive, along with our conversations flowing really well as opposed to someone who I don't really click with.
Is this natural? I mean it rarely happens but the thing that sucks is when it ends, I have a harder time getting over them.
I hate that it happens, but when it does I'm a thing least self aware and give them space so I don't come off overly interested.
Most of the time, I could be open to seeing a person and play it by ear but sometimes I feel getting attached to someone is inevitable.
It kinda makes me feel like liking someone or seeing a lot of potential does more damage than help.
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah I think it's natural. Happens to me sometimes. When you have more things in common, and the more you talk and realize that you both have similar interests there's an instant click. And there's more to talk about. I remember recently reading an article about "opposites attract" and how now it's not all true. I frequently get along more with guys who have the same interests as me and more in common, as opposed to someone who has such diverse interests.
It does suck when it's over but all we can do is move on to a new adventure :)
Most Helpful Guy
Having things in common is good for relationships.
That opposites attract thing only works in movies.