Most Helpful Guy
That is exactly the problem with emotions and feelings. Emotions, feelings are very strange, very weird, they are likely to change anytime.
You will never know when someone will fall out of love with the other, it can happen even if things are good in a relationship.
Love is also an emotion, so it's possible for someone to fall out of love anytime during the relationship/marriage. It's hard to say what exactly can be the reasons, there can be a few:
1. It's possible that they made a mistake in understanding the compatibility level of the other person with reference to them, they misjudged the compatibility level. The person they knew before marriage turned out to be a totally different one after marriage.
2. It's possible that after marriage the flaws of the other person becomes clearly visible and those may not be the flaws that can be accepted or ignored altogether, it can be a major flaw that highlights the character of that person. It's possible that because of this couples can fall out of love with the other.
3. There is no element of surprise or curiosity anymore. Means before they got married they lived in their respective homes, with their parents so there was the curiosity to talk, to know things, to meet and go out together but now after marriage, they are now living in the same house so they are now used to one another, and they used to each other's routines/ schedules so the surprise factor, curiosity factor is no longer there and that could be a reason they are falling out of love.
Most Helpful Girl
my parents have been together 33 years. my mom always says something like "it's not the love that holds the commitment, but the commitment that holds the love". I don't know if they're in mushy romantic love anymore but they're like best friends watching tv together and stuff, it's cute. My mom says she's never seen divorce as an option and they just work through everything. i want to have a marraige like that where we grow old together and be each other's best friend. Maybe some people don't want that. Or maybe people only commit as long as the romantic feelings last.4