If people say it's about the amount of money that will oversee all traits above then I give up. But anyways how does someone who's ugly, short, shy, and socially awkward get girls?
Most Helpful Girl
If you're shy and socially awkward it's not gonna happen unless you do some online shopping and buy one.
You need to work on your confidence. If you can't talk to people, how do you really think you'll meet anybody? It's not gonna happen. You must learn to stand tall, get some confidence build your self esteem, remember the reasons any woman would be lucky to have you, and go meet people. The more people you meet, the easier it gets to talk to people, then the easier it is to talk to people the more people you'll meet. And the more people you meet, the higher your chances get.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well, for a start you need to sell yourself better. If you consider how you have posed your question, it is entirely negative. If that reflects your attitude towards yourself then you are contributing to the problem a great deal. This of it this way, if I advertised to sell my car and said, "This car is shitty" then how many people would be interested?
I know you will probably think that you are merely accepting what society seems to think of you, but that is a defeatist position. We all get negative feedback at times, from specific people in specific situations. Maybe it happens several times. However, we are judging subjective feedback from a tiny subset of people and based on times where our self confidence was shitty and we were presenting ourselves like a broken down car.
It is pretty much established that women are a lot more open to personality and place it as a priority over looks. It may not seem that way in today's materialistic, fashion conscious and body conscious society but there are well established studies to back this up. If anything it is guys who are the most discerning when it comes to looks.
So let's deal with how you look. Some physical properties you can change, some you can't. You can work out, you can lose weight, you can change your hair, your clothes, etc. I'm not saying those things apply to you, they are just general changes we can make. You can study, you can read, you can become more interesting to engage with. You can't change your height or your face but those things can appear significantly different if you change the light that you project behind those things. Nothing that we see is fixed, it is merely an interpretation of information by the brain. That information can be altered. If you fall for someone their looks change to you. Someone pretty average looking can dominate your heart.
Finally, don't forget strategy. Do you believe that physicality beats strategy? If that were the case, would the smart and successful be running the world? Do bodybuilders run the world? Do athletes run the world? Does the bigger force always win the war? You have a brain and probably a good one. Why not use it to work out how to disarm the girls that you are interested in, to allow your personality to come through. Then you can change those initial perceptions for the better. Sometimes all you need to do is get past that initial defence and you then have a blank canvas on which to paint your story.0