What are some redflags for you?
What are basic red flags for you that its time to end the relationship?
What Guys Said 20
She votes Republican.
She's an Objectivist.
She says "You want it too much."
She says "I want breast reduction surgery." when she doesn't need it.
She says "Well, that's going to stop when we get married. Right?"
She says "How much to we have in the bank? I want to know how much I can spend."
1.) One becomes too controlling
2.) Lacks to spend quality time
3.) Blowing your phone with
calls and or text messages
4.) Shows up in places when
your out with your friends
5.) Doesn't want to give you space
6.) Makes promises and breaks them
7.) Caught in lies by you
8.) Takes money or ask for
money from you when your
out on date
9.) Refuses to take No for answer
10.) Demands sexual intercourse
or sexual favors only and lacks to
show real love and or affection.0
When the thrill, excitement and love is gone then it's time to end things.0
When you're no longer happy and the bad outweighs the good0
1. You don't enjoy talking to them
2. You don't exactly know what makes this person special
3. They just mistreat you
4. You're disgusted being with them1
She has too much excuse
If she does too many drugs or she is a smoker or if she cheats2
She's cheating, giving more attention to other men outside the family. Too much demanding or putting you down... I think there's a short list for me0
Doesn't communicate as much
Doesn't spend time with me
Isn't interested in doing activities together
Slowly not treating me as a priority
Starts lying a lot and acting shady
Becomes interested/attracted to someone else0
She constantly whines about how hard life is for her and how depressed she is.
Constantly talks about her ex.
Friends with an ex (biggest Red Flag ever).
Demands favours all the time while she's not giving any effort in the relationship.
She won't stfu in bed when i am trying to fall asleep. She won't stop complaining about my constant farting.0
When she tells you what you can and can't do.2
lack of respect.
you argue in public and there's no restraint on humuiliation as a big example
That there's more intimacy with anybody else, or that leads to a place very different than what I liked it to be like.0
When I realize I can't be myself around her anymore.1
When she slept with another. I will probably sleep with her before dump her.0
Any SSRI medications
Someone in my industry
Women who treat waiters badly.0
If you find them in bed with someone else?0
What Girls Said 9
- He stops putting effort into the relationship
- He shows a lack of sexual/affectionate interest
- We bicker constantly
- He begins acting aloof or distant3
Some basic ones are that they aren't over their ex (if they had one), only talk about themselves and never seem to take much interest in you, only seem interested in sex and/or not getting to know you, too busy or not able to be around you much, and if they are an unstable person. Those are some pretty basic but very important red flags! A lot of them are looked over quite often and given excuses... Usually that's fine but if the person meets even two of these, that's a big no no no. There's plenty of red flags though, those are just the most common ones that I could come up with! Hope it helps! 🤗🤗0
Barely any Convo Nor Open Lines of Communication
No one is feeling it, or at least One of us isn't
Another Someone Special is in the Picture
No time for One another
Lame Duck Excuses of Why and What?
Not wanting a Real Relationship xx0
Lack of respect/manners
Letting themselves go
Lack of communication
Becoming too clingy or even controlling/lack of trust
Lack of appreciation for each other0
I've never been in a relationship but I can see when it is time to drop a guy. For me, I've always been the one to end it; at school I'm called a player by many but it's not really like that.
1) Talking to them becomes boring.
2) You start to be uncomfortable near them, but in a bad way.
3) You start to go out of your way to avoid them.
4) You feel guilty for continuing to be with them.
5) You feel like being with them is a waste of your time.
If it's like that for either person, it's time to bail, unfortunately.0
i think if i'm questioning if its time, its time.1
No job, being ignored, always arguing, lying, lack of communication2
Not being happy with that person
Lack of communication and attention
Partner doesn't understand my problems
Partner is controlling
Starts getting overly possessive, lack of communication/affection, any weird tendencies0
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