What are basic red flags for you that its time to end the relationship?

What are some redflags for you?


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What Guys Said 20

  • 1. Becomes antagonistic to my family and/or friends
    2. Frequently says cruel/unkind things and then says it was a "joke"
    3. Consistently breaking promises
    4. Cancelling plans at the last minute
    5. Refusing to discuss probpems in the relationship

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    • 6d

      Sounds like me to a T... ouchie ):

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      I dated a girl like that in high school. By the end of that relationship I had pretty much no self esteem left. :(

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      @sugarchateau If it hurts to see that picture painted for you. . . you can do something about all of those problems. The single most important rule in a relationship is to always practice the Golden Rule: treat your partner the way that you want to be treated. That doesn't guarantee that your partner will reciprocate, but it is your best hope for getting a partner to treat you the right way. And if they don't reciprocate. . . they are not The One and it is time to move on.

  • She votes Republican.
    She's an Objectivist.
    She says "You want it too much."
    She says "I want breast reduction surgery." when she doesn't need it.
    She says "Well, that's going to stop when we get married. Right?"
    She says "How much to we have in the bank? I want to know how much I can spend."

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  • 1.) One becomes too controlling

    2.) Lacks to spend quality time
    with you

    3.) Blowing your phone with
    calls and or text messages

    4.) Shows up in places when
    your out with your friends

    5.) Doesn't want to give you space

    6.) Makes promises and breaks them
    often
    7.) Caught in lies by you

    8.) Takes money or ask for
    money from you when your
    out on date

    9.) Refuses to take No for answer

    10.) Demands sexual intercourse
    or sexual favors only and lacks to
    show real love and or affection.

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      11.) Lacks communicating much with you

      12.) Spends more time with friends than
      their partner.

  • When the thrill, excitement and love is gone then it's time to end things.

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  • When you're no longer happy and the bad outweighs the good

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  • 1. You don't enjoy talking to them
    2. You don't exactly know what makes this person special
    3. They just mistreat you
    4. You're disgusted being with them

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  • She has too much excuse

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  • If she does too many drugs or she is a smoker or if she cheats

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  • She's cheating, giving more attention to other men outside the family. Too much demanding or putting you down... I think there's a short list for me

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  • Doesn't communicate as much
    Doesn't spend time with me
    Isn't interested in doing activities together
    Slowly not treating me as a priority
    Breaking promises
    Starts lying a lot and acting shady
    Becomes interested/attracted to someone else

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  • She constantly whines about how hard life is for her and how depressed she is.
    Constantly talks about her ex.
    Friends with an ex (biggest Red Flag ever).
    Demands favours all the time while she's not giving any effort in the relationship.

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  • She won't stfu in bed when i am trying to fall asleep. She won't stop complaining about my constant farting.

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  • When she tells you what you can and can't do.

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  • lack of respect.

    you argue in public and there's no restraint on humuiliation as a big example

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  • That there's more intimacy with anybody else, or that leads to a place very different than what I liked it to be like.

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  • When I realize I can't be myself around her anymore.

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  • When she slept with another. I will probably sleep with her before dump her.

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  • Any SSRI medications
    Single moms
    Someone in my industry
    Women who treat waiters badly.

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  • If you find them in bed with someone else?

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What Girls Said 9

  • - He stops putting effort into the relationship
    - He shows a lack of sexual/affectionate interest
    - We bicker constantly
    - He begins acting aloof or distant

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  • Some basic ones are that they aren't over their ex (if they had one), only talk about themselves and never seem to take much interest in you, only seem interested in sex and/or not getting to know you, too busy or not able to be around you much, and if they are an unstable person. Those are some pretty basic but very important red flags! A lot of them are looked over quite often and given excuses... Usually that's fine but if the person meets even two of these, that's a big no no no. There's plenty of red flags though, those are just the most common ones that I could come up with! Hope it helps! 🤗🤗

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  • Distancing oneself.
    Barely any Convo Nor Open Lines of Communication
    No one is feeling it, or at least One of us isn't
    Another Someone Special is in the Picture
    No time for One another
    Lame Duck Excuses of Why and What?
    Not wanting a Real Relationship xx

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  • Lack of respect/manners
    Letting themselves go
    Lack of communication
    Becoming too clingy or even controlling/lack of trust
    Lack of appreciation for each other

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  • I've never been in a relationship but I can see when it is time to drop a guy. For me, I've always been the one to end it; at school I'm called a player by many but it's not really like that.

    1) Talking to them becomes boring.
    2) You start to be uncomfortable near them, but in a bad way.
    3) You start to go out of your way to avoid them.
    4) You feel guilty for continuing to be with them.
    5) You feel like being with them is a waste of your time.

    If it's like that for either person, it's time to bail, unfortunately.

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  • i think if i'm questioning if its time, its time.

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    • 6d

      same rule applies if im thinking of if i want to begin a relationship. if im thinking of it i probably do.

  • No job, being ignored, always arguing, lying, lack of communication

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  • Not being happy with that person
    Constant arguing
    Lack of communication and attention
    No affection
    Partner doesn't understand my problems
    Partner is controlling

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  • Starts getting overly possessive, lack of communication/affection, any weird tendencies

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