He said "I can pick you up, I just don't wanna hurt my lower back."
Most Helpful Guy
I think people should think before they speak. It seems like a joke but
than again things said can also be hurtful. I am a bigger guy and i have
a issue if someone makes a statement to me calling me Big Guy cause
I had a weight problem all my life and so far manage to lose almost 100 lbs
I've came along way but it still can change my train of thought and upset me
even thou ladies have told me I'm attractive guy i still have issues accepting
compliments and such so i know where your coming from trust me.1
Most Helpful Girl
Could be simply that bending over to pick up a piece of paper could hurt his back (I've had those days - hurt my back recently). And so he didn't mean it in a fat way just that anything weighing more than 50grams could hurt.
BUT, if it's something he implies a lot, then maybe he was.1