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- I love giving dating advice41% (48)44% (52)43% (100)Vote
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Most Helpful Guy
i try to basically explain a long complex probability equation, without actually saying anything of the sort.
basically, think of your ideal mate. Work out every precise detail. Chances are, that person exists somewhere in the world. But your chances of meeting them are very slim, and the chances of you fitting every precise detail of their criteria are slimmer still. So, you can hold out, but the thing is that the 'details' that you fit are going to change over time, and eventually (particularly when it comes to appearance) you are going to fit fewer of other people's standards.
However, the more you loosen your own standards, the more likely it is you'll find a guy that fits them - the extreme case of this being that you have no standards, in which case every guy meets your standards.
This whole process of mutual standard fitting is commonly referred to 'compatibility.' As you grow older, fewer guys remain for you to be compatible with. You can either lessen your standards now, or be forced to lessen them later. Or, you can take the risk and hold out for the chance you meet someone more compatible. Nothing is guaranteed to work, so choose wisely..0
Most Helpful Girl
I are taken, very taken. Someone finally caught me and pinned me down. LOL.
I also like giving dating advice, I like to think I have some helpful things to say. Lol.1