My best friend who happens to be a male decided it wasn't necessary to tell me about his girlfriend. At first I was disappointed in him because there's flirting from both ends pretty frequently, sometimes we even talk about sex and he always helps me with everything. I always wanted to be more than friends, just never had the courage to tell him. But I've definitely hinted it to him. Anyways, I found out through a mutual friend that he has a girlfriend. When I confronted him, he said he just didn't feel like he needed to talk about it because his relationships end fast and that he says I'm more important than her. I explained to him that I was upset and disappointed in him that he didn't tell me because of how flirty we get so I decided to back down and stop flirting. As the days go by, I can't help but to get jealous because I wanted to be his girlfriend. I don't want to break them up. I need advice.. Is there a better way than to just disappear from his life, or is this the only way?
My male best friend didn't tell me about his girlfriend. Im happy for him but I love him and I'm jealous. Should I disappear from his life?
What Guys Said 3
if he said your more important to him that she is then tell him how you feel amd things will have a way of working themselves out0
this is partly your fault as well. If you Mike him you should have asked him.0
Just stay his friend and see what happens0
What Girls Said 2
This is classic player moves.
✅Makes you feel like you're special to him.
✅Gets you to trust him.
✅He has a girlfriend who he emotionally cheated on with you. (Face it, you'd consider what he did with you as cheating if you were his girlfriend.)
✅Mentioned short relationships. (Obviously because he's a chronic cheater/player.)
This should make you angry, not jealous. Hopefully you won't fall for this type of guy again.0
I would say your best bet is to be honest with him. There is nothing wrong with telling someone your feelings, even if they are in a relationship. It wouldn't be you who broke them up, if he chooses to end their relationship and be with you, then that was his choice. It would only be a bad thing if you were purposely trying to screw them up.0
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