Everywhere I go if it's a night out or just doing shopping guys always stare at first I just ignored it but now its getting really annoying. I'm single so when me and my friends go out to a bar we just sit and chat. The guys that approach me are all drunk and well over 50. I will always get stared at but no guy approaches me. I guess my question is why do guys stare but never approach? If I guy stares at me I will smile but that still doesn't do anything.
Most Helpful Guy
Modern men have zero testicle fortitude. It is not your fault. Men today place so much assumption and personal emotion on rejection. It is a ego shattering experience for them. They have not learned that no is OK. They have not discovered that they have a lot of options. They are their worst enemy. Guys like me that get that their is unlimited possibility, which is only 3% of the entire population. It is not you or how you look so lets just throw that out the window. The reason the men in their 50's approach you is because they have a different generational confidence. It is really a cognitive dissonance that modern men tell themselves. They literally talk themselves out of opportunities and lie to themselves because of fear of rejection. It is a self imposed lie. Unfortunately it happens to a lot of women. The value of the conversations what drives me to talk to women such as yourself. All the other stuff falls in later. Me I am trying to get to know people. It is the self imposed stresses that are lies we tell ourselves that keep us from discovering new people and having friendships and relationships. It can also determine successes, financial, career, relationships. I am rambling and you get the just of what I am saying.3
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Most Helpful Girl
look at my questions i just asked similar ones2