Everywhere I go if it's a night out or just doing shopping guys always stare at first I just ignored it but now its getting really annoying. I'm single so when me and my friends go out to a bar we just sit and chat. The guys that approach me are all drunk and well over 50. I will always get stared at but no guy approaches me. I guess my question is why do guys stare but never approach? If I guy stares at me I will smile but that still doesn't do anything.
Guys always stare but don't approach?
What Guys Said 25
Modern men have zero testicle fortitude. It is not your fault. Men today place so much assumption and personal emotion on rejection. It is a ego shattering experience for them. They have not learned that no is OK. They have not discovered that they have a lot of options. They are their worst enemy. Guys like me that get that their is unlimited possibility, which is only 3% of the entire population. It is not you or how you look so lets just throw that out the window. The reason the men in their 50's approach you is because they have a different generational confidence. It is really a cognitive dissonance that modern men tell themselves. They literally talk themselves out of opportunities and lie to themselves because of fear of rejection. It is a self imposed lie. Unfortunately it happens to a lot of women. The value of the conversations what drives me to talk to women such as yourself. All the other stuff falls in later. Me I am trying to get to know people. It is the self imposed stresses that are lies we tell ourselves that keep us from discovering new people and having friendships and relationships. It can also determine successes, financial, career, relationships. I am rambling and you get the just of what I am saying.3
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That means you are physically very attractive but guys only like to see you from a distance and so they don't really want to approach you.1
Where do you go out? Unless you want a drunk 50 year old, maybe you need to research where to hang out in your area.2
Try looking back and smiling at the guys you want to approach you.1
They are appreciating your look, but perhaps they are not single. And you never know, a guy who is single but is staring at you, might be nervous to talk to you.1
either u have negative vibes
or your friends look better than u3
Are you sure they're staring at you? They could just be looking in your general direction. It would probably be a better idea to not assume that everyone is watching you.2
Fear of rejection. All the same reasons women don't. Approach guys you like back.0
maybe too pretty, intimidated and thinking someone like you is taken? I don't know0
Are you Iranian?0
Hey, you're pretty. Can I have your number?0
They check you out.0
If someone is really interested in you they will go out of their way to get your attention.1
Why would a 50 yr old approach you?0
Because we might get rejected, why don't you approach that would make things a lot easier.2
Men find you attractive but are too scared to ask you out.
Have you tried approaching guys? How did that work out?1
My theory is true then, that all young guys became chicken because of social media.1
What Girls Said 2
look at my questions i just asked similar ones2
he may be shy0
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