Kill the voice inside; kill the lie; kill the lie.
Drugs will do that, though. Kill every bit of yourself until you dont give a fuck about anything. Although, there's something painful about being numb and apathetic, too.
I don't think you known what you're asking, though. You just want the pain to stop. Channel it and work through it. Don't endeavor to become a monster. There's enough of those around already.
It's so seductive to be cold and corrupted and isolated, try to to an independent republic.
Being cold and heartless isn't something you can just decide to do. It takes a lot of pain to get to that point. A lot of pain. And say you succeed. You've chosen security over freedom. You've isolated yourself. And that's no way to live. Part of being human is that connection you get with others, even if it hurts you, sometimes. If you lose that, you lose your humanity, and you'll do anything to anyone. Do you really want to become that person?
Instead of wishing to be cold and heartless, wish to be able to not be at the mercy of your emotions. Wish to be able to use them and master them, to enjoy them, rather than be controlled by them.
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Ha, that's quite easy. Just don't care about what other people say. If someone insults you, think to yourself that other people's judgements of you shouldn't matter. That's the whole point. If you don't care about what other people think of you, you'll start becoming more robotic. I honestly don't agree with the way you're dealing with your emotions, but it's your choice, so...
Now the procedure I tell you of has not been scientifically proven and is potentially risky but for cold hearted, having a heart surgery and making them keep the new heart in a freezer for a month before hand will give you an icy cold heart and to become heartless is even easier, rip your heart out.
That was just me being a douche waffle. I have just a few words for you.
Life pulls us down but it's only when we get up we become victors.
You have to dig through the dirt to find the gold, the more the dirt, the more prized the gold.
If you've fallen too many times and think you can't do it again, stop, eat a cookie, stand up again.
You're built to reproduce, go find some other girl to impregnate already. That's advice coming from someone who hasn't felt emotions for anyone in quite sometime. Just remember, whenever you feel yourself getting emotional and shit, that emotions are only chemical reactions. There's no such thing as love, only a sense of comfort and familiarity. You don't have to shut everyone out, I mean who would you make satire comments to then? Just realise that any feelings you have for them are all fabricated by your brain to give you a sense of self worth.
Oh honey. I'm sorry dating and romance hasn't worked out for you. :-( Please don't go all MGTOW on me, but there are actually kind and sincere women out there, but most of them don't really talk to guys all that much. I've seen it happen before, with the sweetest girl, and she had her heartbroken by a man who was a total a**hole, and now she hates all men. It goes both ways dear. I just hope you meet someone who changes your mind someday. ^-^
Simple. Don't care. Don't care about other people. Don't bother being in a relationship.
I don't suggest this route though because we all experience pain but many times good does come out of it.
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I think it's easier to just not date, dude.
Well... You can't. You're just human. You can be angry, self destructive, uncaring and everything. But you will still be hurt. You will still be controlled by emotions. You will still feel voids in your heart.
Just heal yourself. Nurture yourself. Stand back. Be logical. Think clear. Focus. Breath. Have a goal. Ignore all other things.
That's how to be cold.It is all a mind game and your mental health. Read up on human behavior and mind studies. You will crack people open like a walnut! Turn this negative energy into your motivation. Psy studies may be your forty and it definitely adds Armour to your mind.
You gotta base your happiness in something a movable and steadfast. for me it is weights and Fitness weight of Integrity they only way what they say on the outside they're always there for you they will never cheat comma they only make you better never worse. Just like with anything practice will make you perfect stop being nice and exchanging pleasantries with civilians. Do not hold doors do not say please do not say thank you do not say I'm sorry treat everyone as an object. Like with anything practice makes perfect. Work on that poker face and eventually it will become your real face you won't care about others you won't feel their pain you're at they will be gone. If you're dating a lot if you're cheating cheating but always cheat because if you don't put in your best it won't hurt when it's gone. Realize that there are more than six billion people on this Earth and you're the most important one.
Are you really that oblivious to the answer?
"Can I be your friend? NO"
"Wanna hang out with me? NO"
"Tell me a little about yourself? DO you always ask pointless questions?"
Based on these examples, you can figure it out for yourself. Don't be annoying by asking for further instructions.So you want to become one of these "heartless bastards" who hurt you?
I guess you are hurt but if you become cold hearted then the girl like me will never manage to fall I love with you.
Don't allow others to change the kind heart you have :)It takes years to achieve this, I know. So your better off getting your sad feelings validated with a friend, drink and cry, rage with ranting and slowly find a new hobby or interest. The alternative is to not share feelings let them stay in smoldering to consume your heart and I don't think you really want that
That's not too hard, just concentrate on your self for a while, and work on yourself, read books go to the gym, stop looking for someone to be your girlfriend, and you won't fall for anyone else, plus women like that.
Look up what the medical literature says about the chemical mechanism that is involved in what is called romanric love, or eros.
Eros is a delusional state of mind that is created by the release of endorphins.careless... simply just that a bastard. ... be nasty with everyone and play with peoples feelings and tre at them like toys... its not too hard..
It's not about being heartless. it's about not giving too much until you know the person deserves it.
You wouldn't need a manual if what hurt you hurt you enough. Take it from me.
Umm, focus on yourself? You get hurt because you expect too much of someone. If you expect one big nothing then they can't hurt you. You're welcome emo.
Don't let yourself get involved with anything, it's the safest way, build a wall around your heart.
Stop giving a fuck. Treat people like shit and enjoy doing it.
Here's the thing. If you're not cold and heartless now, you won't be. You can try not going all in right away, or find a hobby to occupy your time.
You don't gotta become cold hearted and heartless to avoid getting hurt. You can just keep your heart and emotions guarded.
Watch videos of people getting killed it works up to a degree.
Figure out who you are with a lot of deep thinking and self reflection.
thats naturally happens when u have a lot in life - n it pushes u to be like that
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