I look nothing like my boyfriends celebrity crush?

Question

My boyfriend and I were talking about celebrity crushes. I asked him which one was his and he said "I have none" and I said "you're such a liar cause I know who it is" (he follows Emily Ratajkowski on snapchat, and he doesn't know I knew)

and he was like "hmmmm oh yeah Emily Ratajkowski, the one with the lips"

this is makes me feel really uncomfortable. I'm not really the jealous type, but out of a actresses and models he chose her, and to be following her is just weird and excessive.

He also said Aubrey plaza. which is weird because before we were talking my boyfriend was talking to this girl and he compared her looks to Aubrey plaza..

misseasybreeze · Accepted Answer

so i know this may sound sucky, but we all have that "dream celebrity crush". no matter what you look like, his brain is just attracted to those models or actresses. it doesn't mean you are any less attractive, because you guys are completely different. Emily Ratajkowski is understandable as she is a staple in the sexy model industry with her wet hair and big breasts/slim figure, and Aubrey Plaza is probably a bit more realistic of his type, but then again, he's not going to get any of them, theyre celebrities lol.
think about it, have you ever watched a movie or show or have a favorite singer that you're like OMG. he's BEAUTIFUL. he could have dark hair, light hair, dark eyes, light eyes, anything, and then you look at your boyfriend and he looks nothing like him? it doesn't mean you're going to leave him to find a guy that looks like that celeb crush, but it COULD mean thats your type of guy/his type of women. my ex was white and had a bunch of celeb crushes on white country chicks, and i felt like shit sometimes, but at the end of the day he was still in love with me and my latina ass, tbh. dont let that discourage you. its just something he can't help, but at the end of the day you're his girl, he loves YOU, and he's with YOU because he CHOSE to be. crushes come and go, but remember he's with you for much better reasons than just looks

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

WHY DID YOU ASK THAT QUESTION?

YOU KNEW YOU WEREN'T GOING TO LIKE THE ANSWER! HE KNEW YOU WEREN'T GOING TO LIKE THE ANSWER!

MEN KNOW WOMEN ARE SECRETLY INSECURE LITTLE FLOWERS THAT NEED TO BE SHELTERED FROM THE FACT THAT THEY DON'T LOOK LIKE SUPERMODELS.

You brought this on yourself lol seriously.

Men like what they like. And a typical man likes a lot of things and a lot of combinations of things. You need to forget this conversation ever happened and never ask him this again.

Schrodingerscat · Accepted Answer

My ex' celebrity crush was Jennifer Aniston and a Bollywood actress. I didn't look like any of them.
My celebrity crushes are Daniel Radcliffe and a Bollywood actor. He didn't look like either of them lol.
So yea, celebrity crushes are nothing. Sure, that may give you a bit of idea about what kind of features they like but not more than that..

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Omg I seriously don't understand why women ask their boyfriends husbands whatever who they have a crush on and then get all sad paranoid and it's completely absurd when they tried to look like that celebrity why do you do this to yourself?

AndyOh · Accepted Answer

As long as he does not start putting posters up in the house with these women on it, or become obsessed in other ways, I don't think you need to worry. I like and think a lot of these models and stars are gorgeous, but in reality, so what. I am sure you think a lot of movie stars are hot too.. but so what. We all look and dream, but the reality is usually standing right in front of us. And those are the ones we take home, have dinner with, laugh with, and enjoy life with.
Do yourself a favor and don't get caught up in jealousy over a fictional character.

Bandit74 · Accepted Answer

Well does he look like your celebrity crush? Also Emily is pretty much just a glorified stripper. I doubt he'd be interested in her for anything other than her looks and sex.

OrganisedChaos · Answer

Yeah I think Channing Tatum and many others are hot and my boyfriend doesn't look like them either :/ he follows loads of models on instagram. Hot celebs are hot celebs, we still find each other insanely attractive and are very much in love, celebrity crushes are nothing, don't worry about it

TornadoCreator · Answer

Men have multiple things they're attracted to. Some of my celebrity crushes include: Hayden Panettiere, Mila Kunis, Taylor Swift, Vanessa Hudgens, Amy Adams, Willa Holland and Melissa Benoist... as you can see, there's very little they all have in common. Some men have a "type", some men like very different and completely contradictory. I like Filipino girls, but I also have a thing for pale redheads with freckles. A Filipino girl with red hair and freckles would look ridiculous.

writing_essays · Answer

Your extremely immature. In fact you act like you are 3 years old. He didn't want to tell you which celebrity he liked and you kept harassing him so he tells you after you stalk him and illegally break the law - that he likes Emily and now you are jealous of a CELEBRITY that has no contact or interaction with you and you are angry at him for your jealousy? I would say my cousin's 2 year old children are more mature then you.

chris1819 · Answer

we adore these celebrities, for the way they look, the way they react to social situations etc. when it comes to loving someone, we can never find the holistic personality to date. Even the so called celebs have faults , which are not known to public. it is not necessary, that we likeust be loved. And once we love something, rest are in unnecessary..

Blueeyes81 · Answer

This ladies and gentlemen is why we don't ask questions about things we can't handle. He knew it was a trap. You persisted, so he answered. If he had lied and said some other woman you would have been upset because he lied. It was a lose lose for you both from the start.

ninjast4r · Answer

Girls worry about this stuff all the time. He's with you. Not Emily Ratajkowski, or whoever. She's more or less a fictional character compared to you, so you shouldn't feel threatened by a girl who's so intangible that she may as well not even exist.

Blonde401 · Answer

Celeb crushes don't mean much. Mads Mikkelsen is my dream man but in reality I date chubby guys who don't have cheek bones that can cut glass. It's just a celeb crush, don't compare yourself to celebs cause you'll always lose.

enis_Penvy · Answer

Guys like pretty girls. That won't change. But you being silly over a celebrity he'll never meet and instead realizing he's with you becasue he cares is important.

JCPD14 · Answer

That's why they're called "celebrity crushes ". We have no chance with them, but we like them anyway. Don't take it personal. My real crush looks nothing like my celeb crush, but that doesn't mean my celeb crush is more attractive.

Browneye57 · Answer

You're having trouble differentiating between reality and dreamy thoughts.  Worse, you paint him into a corner and then get butt-hurt about it. Such childish behavior.

Pink934 · Answer

Hmm I think Aubrey plaza is pretty ugly tbh so maybe so is that other girl :/

Christomur · Answer

He He just likes the looks. But personality is what is keeping him with u. Looks get boring.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Guys feel like this all the time.  Do your eyes hurt? That's because you've never used them before. Welcome... to the world. *Dramatic music.*

rgb008 · Answer

That's why it's a celebrity crush lol No average person looks like Emily.

Puppylove94 · Answer

You should go to a plastic surgeon and reconstruct your face. He'll love it.

Thrifty · Answer

so his type is skinny bitches with brown hair and dark eyes

Anonymous · Answer

Do you think Ryan Gosling is hot? Does your boyfriend look anything like him? There you go.

samcool092 · Answer

shit man. girls like you are made to harress yourself and your boyfriend for just stupid things.

steveeee_94 · Answer

my other half looks notjing like my celeb crush don't worry about it

jman46241 · Answer

That Aubrey girl looks so boring

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