why does a guy call you, have a chat, plan a night out then bail?, was he just making conversation, if so why bother calling at all ?
Then when you check to see if plans are going ahead with a text they don't reply? then call or text a week later ?
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Honestly to be fair women do this too. I've had so many girls pull this kind of shit on me a lot in the past. I think there are a few possible reasons.
They're a flake.
They're just not interested in you.
They're playing games with you.
They're short attention spanned.
They're not thinking about your feelings.
They're avoiding you.
All of these are possibilities. To be honest though I can't begin to tell you why your guy did this to you on repeated occasions, but I can say this, if he has done this more than once, just kick him to the curb and cut him out of your life. You don't need or deserve that kind of crap and you most certainly CAN do better than that pathetic little fucktard.
I may not be able to tell you the exact reason but I hope I at least made you feel a little better. Good luck with this.0