Now, i feel like i need to confirm something. If i go on a date with a guy, I have no problem splitting the bill. the thing is, if the guy doesn't offer to pay for me, I feel as if the date WASN'T going great. is this ok? I don't want to seem like a gold-digger, and i dont have a problem paying, but i still feel like if the guy doesn't offer, it wasn't a good date.
1. its JUST the offer i want. id still rather pay half, but offering to pay for the meal, for me, might show more of an interest
2. i have no problem paying for the guy, but i would not feel comftrble doing that on the first dates