19 , flat chested and insecure?

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I'm 19 turning 20 in August, I'm curious to know what you guys think about small boobs. I've had the smallest boobs possible every since I was 12 I'm a 32A have always been a 32A and I fear that they are never going to grow. I think it has to do with the fact that I was born premature. I was born almost 3 months early so I have it of under developed nerves in my body. For the most part I like my body, I'm a pretty decent size as far as my weight is concerned and I'm learning to be okay with the fact that I don't have any like I'm learning to be accepting of it. But obviously it gets to me when I see that there are things I can't wear because I don't have the cleavage for it. It also bothers me because sometimes I don't know how I can appear sexy without any breast. Not having any boobs makes me really insecure especially because it's not the look that you get on your typically black girl. It's actually one of the reasons why I'm scared to get a boyfriend because I'm scared that when he sees me naked and sees that I'm seriously lacking in the chest area he won't like me anymore. I've even contemplated getting implants if they never grow. Please help me, let me know what you guys think of small boobs? I'll love opinions from guys and girls.

Versiah · Accepted Answer

My breasts are 32A and I used to feel like you do. Then i met this guy and we ended up in a relationship when It ended he told me quite smugly that he'd been watching pron with big breasted women in behind my back cos mine wearing big enough for him. I could have took that really personally but do you know what I realised that was his issue not mine. Any guy shallow enough to judg or hold your breasts against you does not deserve your time or effort. My boobs are a part of me they have lots of perks. I dont get back ache they don't affect my posture i don't have to strap them down to exercise, they don't get sweaty and smelly underneath, I don't have to worry about them sagging to my knees when I'm older all things my friends with cleavage moan about. I've learned to be happy with my body the way it is.
I wear what I want at New Years I wore I dress that would have been more suited to someone with more cleavage but I liked it and when I was out I received nothing but compliments and if anyone had said anything I would have responded with why are you looking at my cleavage.
Being sexy is a state of mind if you love yourself then you will feel sexy you can have big breasts but if your not happy with them you won't feel sexy. I thought about surgery but I'm much happier the way I am now. I've now found a guy who loves my breast and I can tell he's genuine about that.
You need to do what makes you happy I found happiness my way you have to do what feels right for you

mistixs · Accepted Answer

There are plenty of women out there, commonly acknowledged as hot, who have smaller breasts. I give examples here:  But here are some more examples: Also, most Victoria's Secret Angels actually have really small breasts, but their breasts simply look bigger because of the bras. Here:

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

If implants will help you feel better about yourself for YOU, then do it.
I'm sure any guy interested in you is going to be for more reasons than tryout boobs. Besides, unless he's blind or you constantly wear falsies, he's not going to be shocked, upset or turned off when you get to the naked stage. he's going to be nervous about his own nakedness and whatever acts are about to take place.

lookingglass214 · Accepted Answer

A great way to compensate for a lack of any features, is to examine your strengths and enhance them!! For example, if you have great legs, work them out, get your butt nice and toned. Get your arms in shape. Maybe workout your pectorals to give your chest a little extra. I know some girls that use those padded bras that help too. There are lots of guys who will find you attractive, just as you are. Go with that and be proud. I'm sure you're a great person on top of all the physical, superficial things like appearance.

eruru · Accepted Answer

you don't need implants... it may not seem so now but small boobs are sexy.

cz once they blossom which they will, they'll be the perfect size. :)
if they blossom n you have implants then (bleh)

so many people out there prefer small boobs... wait for that person to come your way.

Lifeliver26 · Answer

Is your pretty and have a nice body it doesn't matter to be honest to most guys. Somebody will your body.

Tdieseler · Answer

Many girls with small boobs tend to have a hell of an ass... so hope you are in that category... if not... well... there are options.

truthbeknown · Answer

Focus your attention to your hair, legs and butt! Boobs aren't everything!

God_of_Thunder · Answer

A lot of guys, myself included, prefer smaller breasts.

I think 32A is a very attractive size, and I would love them. I understand feeling insecure, and even contemplating breasts implants, but you really don't need them. Implants are unattractive, especially when the breasts you have now are great.

I'm sure they look beautiful; and there's absolutely nothing wrong with them. 😊

dogbert444 · Answer

Both my mum and sister are 32A. They both are happy with how they are. Both have bf's. Being sexy is not all about size and shape. It's how you see yourself and how you flaunt them. A really positive attitude comes from a great personality, and those attributes make any girl sexy.

Don't think about implants. Can cause complications. If guys reject you for your size, then they are too shallow for you. They are not worth bothering with, when there are so many guys that will love you as you are.

Chico_brah · Answer

Gag isn't an accurate portrayal of most men when it comes to a lot of topics and boobs is one of them. Most men really like bigger boobs because most of the the time, they have more sex appeal. I've never heard any of my friends say they prefer small boobs. It's only on gag. They are just hoping you will message them or something.

Smaller tits can look sexy on certain women but bigger boobs almost always look good on all women.

TadCurious · Answer

I think small breasts are very sexy. Bigger isn't always better. I know this bothers you, but most guys aren't gonna care if you don't have large breasts. And there are advantages to having smaller size breasts.

TripleAce · Answer

If you got ass its good. If that booty is lacking, it's going to probably be a issue... probably

meatballs21 · Answer

Small boobs are the best boobs.

spoonman2014 · Answer

You still got time to get them, mid 20's is the final form of adulthood. I barely know anyone from the class of 2008 who remained the same size

Nik1hil · Answer

Stop worrying maintain your health and fitness exercise and they will grow when time comes,..  Your insecurity is killing confidence and hence killing your shot at everything

helloitsmethere · Answer

Breast size has nothing to do with you being born premature.
Weight has a little to do with breast size but it doesn't determine it.
It's probably due to genetics. Don't worry too much about it though.

Raymond_Reddington · Answer

Small boobs are cute in my opinion. Dont know if you watch the walking dead, but there's a character on that show and her name is Beth. She's got pretty small boobs too, but she's really really attractive. Better too small than to big. Dont worry about it ^-^

1smooth28 · Answer

It doesn't really matter whether they are big or small I don't think. They are unique and something special about you.

Liisjak · Answer

Just focus on your body to make it lean and mean, and you'll be far sexier than any cow out there.

skinnyguy · Answer

Don't listen to those guys here, guys DON'T like girls with small boobs.

Yumix · Answer

I like them as long as they fit her body. definitely better than big fake ones... that's a downgrade in my opinion

WhaChaChaKing · Answer

I actually think they look better and I don't think most guys will care much.

Guy_No1 · Answer

I have always preferred small breasts, and your size is perfect, don't go having surgery, I promise you that there are so many men that will love you and love your body too.

Blitzkrieger · Answer

i never knew boobs were that important to women until i came on here. i always looked at boobs like a bonus thing. yeah big boobs are hot, im not gonna lie but im not gonna date a girl just because she has big boobs.

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