At what age do you stop having casual sex and friends with benefits and really get serious about only one person?

[Anonymous]

[ak666]

For me I started off loving my first girlfriend, for the simple reason that she was my first and I knew no other. That turned long distance and ended rather abruptly.

After that I didn't feel much for the following women and had short-lived relationships, semi-casual, while simultaneously traveling a lot.

Then I genuinely fell in love with a girlfriend and wanted to marry her. That didn't work out.

Subsequently I went back to kind of semi-casually seeing women and having short-lived relationships again.

Then I fell in love, unexpectedly, and got married.

I never put an age on it. It ultimately just came to who I could fall in love with. Everything in between was semi-casual and often short-lived.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't get serious with a girl I have casual sex with or friends with benefits. That's why is called casual sex. Listen no man wants a relationship with a girl who's spent her twenties on the cock riding carousel and has banged so many guys she has the thousand cock stare.
Guys want a girl with low numbers of sexual partners for long term relationship and for marriage but until we are ready for that we are willing to date as many sluts as we can which works out great as most women desire and older more experienced man.

[jemjem2017]

personally i've never experienced that but knowing someone who's been to that kind of thing. i work with this guy who's been such a player, he got f buddy, he have sex with different women in bars and clubs, but when he met his wife i think he is 28 when he finally realized that he found the one but its not easy because his wife right now can't accept him, but he show his wife that he can changed he got married at 30 now he got 2 kids and he totally changed

[btbc92]

Relationships are serious. It starts when you decide to be serious or else others won't take you seriously. I've never dated. As a child to my adulthood, I have ALWAYS been serious. But the suitors that claimed they liked me weren't as serious as they made it. There is no age when you start. You start automatically when you decided that you wanted a dating relationship.

[Anonymous]

It never had anything to do with age to me. I'd never accept the possibility of being in a friends with benefits situation.

[OlderAndWiser]

That is very much an individual matter. For me, it was around age 30.

[FadedSkull]

There is no set age, everyone is different. If you feel you are ready to settle down and get into a serious relationship, then go for it.

[martyfellow]

Most people, contrary to what Hollywood shows, don't ever have any great interest in friends with benefits relationships. So we don't have to change to get serious about one person! Or even two, or three!!!

[akadatank44]

I dont think there is a certain age were your saying all of a sudden "oh shit I better settle down soon" sometimes it just takes meeting the right person. I wouldn't focus on an age I'd focus on what you want and if you want a serious relationship.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

you can be like that at any age. there are people who get married in their late teens, and then there are others who are hoeing around in their 40s

[Anonymous]

I suppose it depends on when you lost your virginity. Most people will need a few casual encounters for a few years before they are ready for a serious relationship. The earlier you lost your virginity, the earlier you are ready for a serious relationship. The later you lost your virginity, the later you are ready for a serious relationship.

[LoloWaye]

I've always wanted a relationship but I keep running into men who want casual things. So I guess I'll get in a relationship when I run into someone who wants one with me.

[Nightshades]

maybe where your looking you find the casuals

if your looking for milk looking in the wine cabinate ain't gonna find you milk

[LoloWaye]

@Nightshades people say this all the time. I have no idea where to look. I go to school and work. I've met people at school and just out and about.

[Nightshades]

girl once you hit thirty your gonna find it hard to find guys cause your looks will fade

[clampfan101]

I've never wanted "casual" sex or a friends with benefits. I always have and will want just one woman in my life.

[Anonymous]

Gave it a couple gd tries, now its friends with benefits for life now

[Asker]

Lol.

[bloodmountain1990]

I don't think there's a set age. Everyone's different

[Crumbles]

For me, personally, 5 years old. I'm not proud of my player pre-school me, but once I hit primary school I was as serious as Donald Trump's hairdo.

[dolemite68]

probably once ur 30 for a woman, for men its probably never haha

[Anonymous]

no age matters. it all depends on the maturity of the person, social background, sexuality control, and personality.

[Kitten967]

I've never had a friends with benefits or had casual sex... So I'm not sure

[BrittBratt2416]

Never started... I always took sex and relationship s seriously.

[Wonderer89]

It wasn't about an age for me, it was meeting the right person

[lucky1234567]

I think it's about maturity and up to a particular person.

[Anonymous]

never had causal sex or friend with benefits, i am look, ng for a seriou relatinship

[anaspie]

When you feel ready for it.