It just is funny to me that people sometimes look for an online relationship on here, even though this is an advice site, not a dating or matchmaking site. You're supposed to be asking questions and giving answers, not hitting up on every user on here. Lols. And I also find it kind of funny that I personally have talked to a couple of guys that wanted to still have me be their online girlfriend even though I told them that I was already in a relationship. That just lowers my opinion of a person who does that when people have no respect for other people's relationship. It just shows me that that person can only think of themselves and that they are selfish and inconsiderate. And another thing, why would you even want a relationship online, anyways? There is no intimacy, you can't hold each other, kiss, hold hands, and all that good stuff. Why can't they just get out there and find someone that they can actually meet face to face?
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The people who blatantly look for online relationships like that seem to be too awkward to initiate things with people face-to-face and get desperate out of loneliness. They can get an emotional connection in a purely online relationship, which might help them feel less lonely. If that's all they're looking for, they don't necessarily need the physical aspect. I don't think they mean to be inconsiderate or selfish, they just seem to get attached very easily.1