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Why do men do the dating thing and act interested and then disappear and make themselves unobtainable?

A couple of years ago I started talking to a man and everything was cool. We waited before we slept together, talked about everything and generally... Show More

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  • I think that you should stop letting him take the relationship in whatever direction he thinks it should be going. If a guy is only talking to online and such, it usually means he has something to hide. I would lay it all out for him.. tell him to not promise you things if he isn't going to follow through, that you like him, but you refuse to be strung along like that. Sounds like he needs to decided what he really wants.

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  • Usually players who are juggling multiple girls do the disappearing act.

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