Guys, do you like jealous and possessive girlfriends?

[Anonymous]

So i am the type who was never insecure of any girl that my boyfriend talked to or hung out with. I know this might make me weird but i never imposed anything on him. He did whatever he wanted. I never felt jealous or possessive. We broke up due to some other reasons but we're still friends. So do you boys like your girlfriends being possessive and jealous and insecure of other girls? Where do you draw a line? How much possessive should a girl be?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Well for a girl to be possessive, that's not really bad I don't think. Jealous is when problems start. Like for instance, there's this girl I used to date and really we should have never dated and stayed friends. It's at a point now where she's like family to me and if another girl ever told me to drop her after I explain the relationship I have with this other girl, then I'd tell her to get lost.

[Asker]

Agree with you! Girls become very jealous and they don't realize but they actually start controlling their boyfriends which is unacceptable!

[TuMama]

Unreasonable jealousy is a turn off. If she is threatened by someone talking to me or any female friend, I am actually scared of her. However, if I do something suspicious like spend lots of time with one person and text her and push boundaries, then it's ok as long as she calls me out and let's me know I am disrespectful. But I wouldn't do this anyway.

[Asker]

You're an inspiration to a lot of men out there! Appreciated :)

[JMeister_JP]

I don't mind a little chase, but full blown jealous and possesive girls are not fun. Their insecurity often fuels an obsession, and it is so smothering. They want their boyfriends around 24/7 and they get nosy because they're afraid their boyfriends are flirting behind their backs. A close friend of mine was dating a posessive girl and he said he felt "leashed".

[Asker]

I cannot agree more ! A 100 percent true. Wish girls would learn to be less nosy than they are, a lot of relationships could be perfect.

[AynonOMouse]

I like jealous, possessive, clingy girls. It shows that she actually cares.
Not the suspicious type that try to go through my stuff, but the type that feel the need to always be holding my hand or have her arm around me whenever there are other girls around to show that I am hers.

[Asker]

Appreciated :)

[Anonymous]

A little jealousy can be cute, even healthy. It becomes a problem when they question every place u go and every girl u talk to. My ex was jealous in a strange way, she didn't seem to care much if i flirted in a friendly way even right in front of her, but if a chick hit on me she would go apeshit. One time this girl didn't know we were together and she told my girlfriend i was hot and that she was gonna ask me out lol it was messy

[Asker]

Haha a bone or two must have been broken ;)
Girls become very nosy at times!

[Opinion Owner]

Yea and my girlfriend was this small chick with a super high cute voice lol it was very entertaining to see her get that pissed. But like i said it can be cute/funny if its not over the top. If we were walking past other chicks she would grab my hand just to demonstrate that we were together lol it cracked me up. So its definitely a good thig that you are not insecure but at the same time a little bit of jealousy can be a healthy reminder to your SO that you love them. I've been with women that i didn't have strong feelings for and i didn't care much what she did, but i loved my ex a lot and i found myself naturally being very protective. Not in a creepy way but if we were in a crowded place people have told me that i would give off this protective/unnaproachable vibe lol i didn't notice it i guess it was an instinctual urge to protect my woman

[Asker]

I appreciate that man! Being protective just shows how much you actually care! Maybe you broke up for good! You'll get loads of happiness in your future life, have faith 👍

[admles]

Absolutely not.

A little bit of jealousy / possessiveness is okay.

But girls who are all "unfriend that girl" "stop liking her pics" "you can't have female friends", or what constant texting etc, that's major turn off.

[Asker]

I swear. The girlfriend of one of my guy friends asked him to unfollow me and stop liking my instagram pictures. Hate this behaviour!

[admles]

Yeah, that's just childish and insecure behaviour.

[Anonymous]

It can be interesting but scary... and makes you question if this or that will be the cause of a break up or scream fear from your girl.

Hm, guess I do like it somewhat. With a few limiters haha.

[Asker]

Haha, yes it can definitely lead to a lot of fights and arguments and an eventual breakup!

[xKirito]

Clingy and possessive is good as long as she's not worried about me seeing every girl out there as a new girlfriend

[Asker]

They go all like " if you have a female friend, you're definitely flirting with her" !

[xKirito]

Well, don't have a female friend other than my cousin.

[Anonymous]

There are two types of insecure girls.

One type if the sees some other girl flirt with you, you go home and she's angry and won't talk to you.

The other type sees another girl flirt with you, comes home and wants to screw you like she's in a porn movie. Or if she can, blow you in the public bathroom right then.

One of these is a lot better than the other.

[Asker]

Hahah love how you depicted the whole scenario with so much perfection! Agree mate!

[WalterRadio]

The minute a girlfriend of mine displays one minutia of jealousy or possessiveness, I dump her.

[slatyb]

To me it's totally unacceptable. Either trust me or be gone.

[hugs4rentSocialclub]

Could be nice. But if she can't trust me well I say bye Felicia.

[Phoenix98]

To a degree yes as long as they don't go overboard.

[jman46241]

As long as it doesn't go too far, it's a sign of passion that I can see the good in..

[ToastR]

Too much is bad in my opinion. Light Jealousy is alright.

[Anonymous]

I don't think most of them do.

[Strongman_Devil]

The name for those are crazy ex

[FadedSkull]

I don't mind

[DinosaurLover]

Not really

[Mr-Kabuki]

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