This is exactly how I got out of the friend zone with my wife. She was the only person I dated with whom I became a close friend before even asking her out. We went to dinner and it was horrible. We kept talking like we did as friends, there was no sexual or romantic chemistry there. It was actually easier for me to date acquaintances than friends and heat things up.
So I was really frustrated the whole time and actually kind of pissed off at myself because I couldn't lay the moves on her.
On the way down from the restaurant, it was just me and her in the elevator. I knew I had to do something before she went home so I jammed the emergency stop button and grabbed her and kissed her. It fortunately worked, she loosened up and kind of melted from it. Then I think I grabbed her ass a bit too.
After the elevator resumed, we went up and down this elevator. When I arrived at the ground floor, I pushed the button for the top floor and resumed the kiss. When I arrived at the top floor, I pushed the ground floor and resumed the kiss. After doing that several times, some people got into the ground floor even though we were kissing inside.
We laughed and scurried back to my apartment in a hurry, grabbing a taxi and resuming where we left off.
According to my wife, that one move bounced me out of the friend zone and made her really attracted to me. She thought I was a jackass before (a funny one but a jackass nevertheless).
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As long as the girl is normal and not a blood thirsty nympho then we re both fine. I would certainly not make a move. However, if she pulls my d*ck out and start sucking my brains off, then I have no clue what might happen. Hopefully this never happens to me.
True Story: I was in an elevator once at a summer camp, in the evening, and it was just me, a hot guy, and my friend. I dunno what would've happened if my friend wasn't there, we may have just talked or something, but no, it was so awkward. We all just stood in silence; my friend stared at us, he stared at me, and I stared at the door waiting for it to open. 😂 Good times. He was shirtless, too.
If I was single I'd probably strike up a conversation, laugh about the situation and flirt a little. Get to know him a bit ;)
I'm not single though so I'd probably sit in the corner, texting my boyfriend complaining that I'm stuck in a stuffy lift with a random stranger and it's awkward as f*ck.
Nothing. I'd probably not even realize that they are hot.
Throw a bucket of water on them because they're hot
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-Try to survive and find a solution of getting out of the elevator.
-Chat/pass time.
-If she is stressed, try to clam her.
Don't be worry. I'm way too principled to get loose for anything sexual.Sit and wait for help what else would you do bang a stranger? Now you got an STD then what
Pull the emergency knob and call the landlord. If the air circulation has stopped as well, not talk to conserve air as much as we can.
I take my chance and talk to her, who knows what can happen in the future after we get out of there...
I would say " good thing I used the bathroom before this "
Freak the fuck out about being stuck in an elevator
I get the elevator moving again, then I'll be on my way. I'm not that easily swayed.
Nothing. Use the built in mic to tell them we are stuck.
That makes for a LOT of conversation and eye candy but not the sex you seem to dream of
Uhhh push the emergency button... not trying to be the 8th guy in her rotation.
What if rocks were actually soft, and they just tensed up when we touch them?
Likely nothing. I'm a very shy person, and don't talk to people.
Take off my pants and say it's hot in here
Well I don't know... what does HE do? LMAO
Talk to him
Talk and pretend like I give a shhh just to waste time until they finish fixing it.
Probably just talk to them lol tell life stories
Talk and try to get to know them better.
Hold a conversation until we get out.
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