I dated this man whom I was very in love with for almost three years. He had just gotten out of a bad divorce and told me that he probably did not want to get married or have children. But everything else was good, he always told me he loved me, sex was amazing we got along really well and spent a lot of time together etc. He went through a really rough patch towards the end of our relationship which included an arrest, a child custody fight, an alcohol problem and the need to live with me for a few months. I stood by him like glue when most women would have ran away. He broke up with me as soon as he got on his feet. Six months later he was engaged and now married to someone he just met. Guys please I am still trying to reconcile this and its been awhile and I just need to know what I did wrong and why? Thanks.
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I've heard of guys who can't deal with the woman being the bread winner or making a higher income, even if he has a decent job. So being dependent may have been a situation he wanted to separate himself from. Maybe he never imagined the table ever being reversed to a point where you would need him that much and things would balance out. One question that is bound to come up is that since he was at a marrying point so quickly, did they really just meet? Could he have known her before you became aware of it? It could be just coincidence, but .
People are sometimes attracted to others who tell them what they want to hear rather than what is best. Just throwing out ideas here. If they did really just meet, he may be asking himself the same thing soon. Why did I marry her?2