Could you overlook a person's physical flaws if they have the perfect personality for you?

[Guitarwizard7]

[PunkinPie]

Yes, I think so. Having been married I can honestly say you reach a point where you don't even notice how they look. You're reading their face and voice to sense how they're feeling. It's about the relationship, not the person.

Another example is that I had a friend in high school I saw occasionally through youth group who, looking back now, was probably biracial. (I think so, anyway. He was very light-toned). I never asked him or met his parents.

Anyway I was talking to someone one day and mentioned my friend Alex. They said, "You mean the black kid?" I had no idea what they meant. I had never even noticed that he was black or biracial. He was just Alex.

[Anonymous]

I have to be physically attracted to a guy , but I'll love him for his flaws too. Before I fall in love , I need to know his flaws , because I don't just fall for his good qualities... physical or personal traits , I fall in love with his bad qualties and flaws . It's not love if you just fall in love with the good side of people.

I have flaws and I want a guy to accept them and want me for my flaws. I don't want someone to love just the best parts of me

[Sonjita]

Usually when I like someone I only notice the positive things about him. But there has to be at least something attractive about him. I don't have an ideal male appearance in my mind but I often think of what I'd like his personality and character to be like.

[Renae_85]

Good question? For me it would have to be equal parts.

[Anonymous]

Depends what kind of flaws you are talking about. If you are asking if I'd be with someone who's straight up ugly, no I wouldn't. I would need to be physically attracted to them as well. And before anyone says I'm shallow, no I'm not needing your partner to be attractive is a basic requirement of a relationship. If you aren't attracted to your partner that could cause some problems in the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yes. However, i've always known better than other people's opinions. you have to realise that people act differently with different people. thus, why it is so important for a person to see through all the non-sense and make up your own mind. Don't ever settle because of what other people tell you, that you deserve. People want things to happen that will make them happy, not you.

[Opinion Owner]

I've been alive for a long time, and have seen civilisations rise and fall.
Don't let social nonsense turn you from what you truly want.
Don't make other people happy, when your happiness is most important to you.

[ambertaylor]

Depends how much you personally value appearance. I think it's entirely possible but not for everyone. There has to be SOME attraction even if just minor.

[TripleAce]

Most of the times you have to still be attracted to them in your own way

If you have no attraction it will never work out well

[Anonymous]

For guys its a no unless its something small because guys are visually stimulated and attracted but for girls looks aren't really a factor as long as they aren't repulsedbecsuse they aren't visually stimulated by guys or the male body. Its more so how fun they are to be sround and how well they can provide

[catelyntje]

Not true girls are visually too I don't know where you got this from

[catelyntje]

As if we're going to see an ugly guy in the street and think wow I love his personality sign me in

[Opinion Owner]

@catelyntje so you can look at a hot stranger and feel aroused by him?

[catelyntje]

Maybe

[Opinion Owner]

@catelyntje yes or no? If not than my point still stands

[catelyntje]

Yes girls can

[victoriameliegray]

tbh i would need to have at least some kind of physical attraction to the guy. But I'd say personality plays around 75% of my attraction to a guy.

[lyannamormont]

I mean i can't overlook an obese person or someobe shorter but the rest okay.. anyways..

[Sonjita]

Yeah I even overlooked a shorter guy

[WriterAndPainter]

Absolutely. There's always something worth looking into regardless of how someone looks in a physical sense.

[AshleyyxX]

Most of the time no... unless its something small. I have to be physically attracted to them in the first place.

[Marinepilot]

No I can't. Yes I'm that shallow.

[ShaunaM95]

Of course.

[AneeB]

Maybe or maybe not who knows.

[HarryJBenton]

What physical flaws are we talking about here?

[AthleticMom]

all the time, pal

[NogardaCurse]

yes of course

[Cccgala]

Yes. All the time.

[Sugarplum21]

Yes :)

[Anonymous]

Honestly? No I can't.

[JayLiche]

I guess I could