Lots of guys like me, in my lifetime I've counted over 30 guys liking me. Yet I only dated 3 for a maximum of 3 weeks. I don't know if this is normal. Also, most of the guys that have liked me weren't as you would say "attractive" but they weren't unattractive either. Is this weird! Help give me an explanation.
Thank you so much!
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You're "hard to get"...which in itself is not a bad thing.
It also sounds like you're not the type of girl who likes to lead guys on, and you have a decent level of self-esteem. Both of those are good things...not sure why you're getting these negative comments...
You should certainly be proud that you have standards!
Nevertheless, if you dated more frequently, it would give you more experience.
I mean, while you really only have to ever find that one person you were meant to be with, having more dating experience would probably help you recognize that person and be more ready when you meet them...I say PROBABLY because I myself don't have a lot of dating experience but I wish I did...
So if a nice guy asks you out, don't just turn him down because he doesn't fit the image of your "dream guy". Your "dream guy" is likely to change over time anyway.
I'm not saying to date losers...and it's possible that most of the 30 guys who you noticed liking you were losers, although I'm sure there were guys who liked you who weren't losers whether or not you noticed them. You definitely want to have criteria and know who not to waste your time with.
But if you have the opportunity, date normal guys. It's much easier for a girl to do this than a guy, because a girl can accept a date without immediately telling the guy how interested she is in him...where as a guy has to make a very conscious decision about which girls he is going to ask out. You have an advantage, so use it.0
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