i never gave my best friend victor a chance. because I didn't wanna ruin our friendship so he went out with another girl ,and it killed me because I knew that I was first in his life. It later backfired twice on him I guess he was trying to make me jealous. and I didn't fall for it
i kept partying and posting up pictures on my Facebook and MySpace. and two because he was unhappy with her how can you forget about someone so easily. the point is I later got over it. and I actually felt comfortable him talking about his girlfriend cause I knew that he was unhappy and I had him in the palm of my hand
so he told me he wanted to break up with her . I said" I know you so well you won't do it you'll make her break up with you. and so by fate I made it happen over some txt message. and he was happy and relived and the next day he told me that she called him crying ans she wanted him back and my impression was that he took her back. That made me so angry cause I felt like he just used me cause clearly he was still confused. so on my blog I posted on purpose to get back at him "someone pinch me ! yes it's true I think I met the boy of my dreams"and omg two hours later he messaged me saying thanks for all the advice that you ever gave me and for being there. he's all like I feel "DEAD" inside he said he was gonna leave me alone not call me or text me and he said that he just had to tell me how he felt. I know him so well that he was trying to use reverse psychology on me he wanted me to call him but I stayed strong because I know that he will just try to make me feel bad. So I need you help what will happen next I do feel bad I love him and that's why I let him go to be happy I didn't want my friendship to get ruined but it got ruined anyways. so what does it me for a guy to feel dead? empty, sad , lonely depressed,? I need to be at peace
with this whole situation. did he feel like he lost me really
cause I knew he wanted the best of both worlds.
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Let me tell you this. The friendship ends when someone has feelings for the other. You are making everything about you and you only. You say that you love him, it kills you to see him with someone else, but you won't be with him. You felt hurt because he decided to move on and give the attention to someone else. There are so many contridictions with that whole situation. This is the reason why women don't get any respect. He says that he feels dead inside because you KNEW he wanted to be with you, you KNOW that he would be the guy that would treat you right, but you choose not to be with him for a garbage reason, and then play this game talking about you are with someone else. You say you know him so well, but you are surprised that he is doing this. Just like it hurt you to see him with someone else, how do you think he will feel when he sees you with another guy? He wants to be with you, but you will choose someone else knowing that he wants you? He is rethinking your "friendship" because friends wouldn't betray friends like that. You are playing games with him, and he figured its best to stay away from the person that is hurting him, and that's you.4