Following your words... Coffee dates? plural for each lady. well my ninja your are a legend for dates!!!
OK so Your a serial dater. There's nothing is wrong with this unless your only "serial dating" small difference. Finding someone or finding someone for the night. Nobody you deem as just potential is entitled to your honesty or attention. When it comes to your actions only you should morally be in control. With that being said, I'm going tell you something others won't. do's and don't s
Don't tell anyone anything.
Potential can be very dangerous.
In my opinion Honesty only works for people you already know.
so why tell someone who's is only " potential" your seeing other people? can you be positive you'll be given the same honesty?
be wary, Your Dealing with a sensitive yet beautiful creature lol.
If your able serial dater , most likely she or another is doing it too.
its always good to keep options, till we find out we're one. That's when things get wild.
Ok, so out of these three ladies.. If your not spreading one of these ladies like cream cheese on a bagel I. E ( gettin busy ) etc with in 3-5 days, you should move on my ninja!!! Stop wasting time. If she let you spend the night and you didn't try harder to stretch your noddle brain. I'd keep it moving. I've experienced this situation a few times. i lost out of a lot of good bad decisions.
No it is not.
Let me ask u this?
U fine with ur fine having 3 husbands?
If yes then u need to go see a psychologist.
If not then u should treat people the way u expect to be treated
It's perfectly fine as long as you make it clear for each and every one of them that you're not exclusive and that you might be seeing other people. That way they know what's up and you won't be held accountable for any possible hurt feelings.
People who get offended because of the fact that some people like to keep their options open when dating, shouldn't even be dating in the first place. The whole point of dating is that
1. You're not exclusive
2. You're just getting to know each other to see if you're compatible romantically/sexually
3. You're allowed to see other people and drop anyone you're dating at any given time if you're not into them
^ those are the general rules. Then of course you should make it clear for the people you're dating that you're seeing others. Obviously it's bad to give them the impression of being exclusive, that would be deceitful.
Depends. Do they know you are dating other women? Are they the type of women that are comfortable with this method of dating? Or would they be upset if they found out they weren't the only one? I think as long as you aren't sexual it's alright but once you start having sex you need to be more careful. MOST women want a relationship if you are having sex. Also it's possible they might suspect you are seeing other people but are afraid to ask and you don't want to mention it. But if you are lying about it that's not ok. Also if you sense one of them is becoming more into you and ready to move things further than you are at this time then don't string her along while you try to figure shit out. Either let her go or let the others go. It's not fair to play with people's emotions.
So like, I dated four guys until I got my boyfriend. It's no big deal.
I mean, if you haven't agreed to be exclusive with them, it's no problem. Like sleeping with all of them would be kinda gross, but dates and stuff? What's the big deal?
It's an efficient way to find a new relationship, and as long as you're honest, no harm. Just if you agree to be exclusive with someone, you have to dump the others cuz two-timing is pretty low. :)
I guess it's technically okay, but the sooner you narrow it down to one girl the better (if you even like any of them enough to want to be with them). Going back and forth between people is not only tiring, but it is difficult. If it goes on for too long then they might get upset. If you don't see yourself being in a relationship with one then narrow it down.
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As long as your not sleeping together, or everyone knows what is going on, it isn't cheating. But should you? Some people can do this. I was someone that never did my whole life. Even with my mother telling me to "date everyone". My therapist urged me to give it a try. I did, and it was a freaking disaster. I felt like such a piece of shit. It was just nerve wracking. I never remembered what I told which one, I couldn't keep them straight, etc... I went on two dates with each one before I just gave up on one and concentrated on the one I was most attracted to. I had decided that was going to be my limit going in. Once we got to the "sex" date, I wasn't going to screw both because to me, that is cheating.
I think that is ok because you are single.
After you get to know the girls and you start having feelings for one of the (deeper feelings) and the girl wants to be in a serious relationship then yea, that's when you stop talking with the other girls...
If you don't have deep feelings but you feel comfortable around one girl, and she is super awesome and you can see yourself being her boyfriend is also a good decision.
Make sure that the girls won't hunt you down because they feel that you cheated, some girls tend to fall in love very quick, make sure you are not giving the girls that you don't plan on seeing in the future the wrong vibe. :)
I feel like dating is pretty cool and until you find the right one enjoy your freedom. Just don't be a heart breaker (doing it intentionally)
Until you decide a stronger bond with one it's ok. And as long as your honest with them before having sex.
If you haven't made it official with anyone yet, then yes it's okay to date them all. Seeing other people only becomes wrong if you're in a relationship. You're just hanging out with them right now. I wouldn't lead them along for too long though. I'm not saying make a hasty decision, but at least one of them is going to ask you the big question: "What are we?"
You aren't in an actual relationship yet, you can date how many you want until you make it official with someone. Can't see anything wrong in speeding up the process a little. Of course it's still not something you should brag about in front of your dates lol
The girl to the far left in the pink looks like she admires him, or is jealous of him.
The girl next to her in the black looks like she is about to slap the shit out of him for looking at the girl in the pink
The girl in the middle looks like she is questioning her life decisions
The girl next to her in the black looks like she's on her phone and has no idea what's going on
And the girl to the far right looks like she is going to kill him whenever she gets a chance
I doubt any of these women are dating that man seriously
You are Not tied down Here, dear, to Anyone, hun. Go Slow, Joe. Nurse and Nurture Something that could be a Potential Special Something.
However, don't Open up a Smelly can of worms by any of these girls Finding about the other One. This could be a big No Catch, where you End up Alone at Home.
If you do Find that One is the One, drop the other Two from You.
Good Luck. xx
Well, If i was one of those girls, trust me... I would be furious.. media.giphy.com/media/CmZ5FXzzFfOy4/giphy.gif
and dump your arse...
Nothing wrong with this at ALL! You're playing the field as a single person, as u should be.
Think of it like this: if you were casually dating each woman separately and exclusively, it would take a LOT more time, than dating all three at the same time.
Dating multiple people casually at once, is the best way to find a match. :)
There already many guys that do want go through the dating process and rather just jump into the relationship or just get to know her instead, but without the dating. The fact that means can mean dating other people, its just another excuse for guys not to want to date first.
It's ok if you are honest with them and keep them up to date with everything. As in, tell them that you are single and currently seeing other girls. It's up to them if they want to continue dating you or not.
If u do decide to get serious with one of the girls, let the other girls know.
Absolutely nothing wrong with dating several girls at once. You have to assume they're doing it too so it's silly to put all your eggs in one basket - dating is and always will be, a numbers game.
One point though, while you don't have to outright tell them... if the question comes up, you should not lie to any of them about it.
I think that as long as they know you don't be immediately exclusive there is nothing wrong with that. I would say its wrong if you make 3 girls feel they're currently the only ones and then they find out they're not. But if you're honest about it, I don't see it as a bad thing.
I find women who date multiple guys and who have sex with them till they find the one completely thrshy and slutty...
I wouldn't want to be even around a women like that... Sorry I would date one women and if it doesn't work out then move on but not date multiple
Dating 2 or more people at the same time is okay. But closeness and body contact should be avoided. And even sex should be avoided. Dating multiple partners enables you to choose the right partner , but before having sex or even sleeping on their bed without doing sex , should be done only when you have narrowed down to one partner of your choice.
To be honest, i wish i was in your shoes... dating mulitple girls at once is a dream for me. but to answer your question, it sounds like there's nothing serious at all. just be ready when a serious question comes up and you are responsible to answer them on your own. so its okay.
No. Its trashy. Stick to one, and if it doesn't work then move to the next. If you don't wanna be trashy that is.
People who mess with multiple women or screw around with women without being in a relationship have absolutely no self value. They should rot in hell.
They are the result of bad parenting. Stupid idiots like you are worth dirt.
It's ok to go on dates with multiple people, but I wouldn't say it's ok to be dating multiple people if they're under the impression that y'all are monogamous.
Why wouldn't you? It's silly to put all ones eggs in 1 basket. As long as there's no commitment then everyone is free to do as they wish, why commitment is best avoided.
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