Hi everyone, I'm in my 20s and I've never had a boyfriend before or a guy really like me before. To make a long story short, I have always thought that I was molded to be alone. The reason being, I am a career oriented person.
I have only liked two guys in my life. One, 3 years ago, who stopped talking to me suddenly when he spiraled into a depression. Another who said he cared about me, but ended up with someone else and said I deserve better.
I don't think I deserve better. In fact, I don't think I deserve anyone and I always thought that. This just confirms everything. I'm very hurt and this gives to reason to continue to keep to myself.
How do I deal with this?
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ask yourself this:
are you read to settle down? if no, then your not ready for a relationship.
are you able to manage your time between a relationship and your career? if no, then you are not ready for a relationship.
can you take care of yourself and do you have room to take care of someone else? if no, then you are not ready for a relationship.
do you want a relationship? if no, then you aren't ready for a b/f.0