I met Cory online 8 months ago but we didn't really meet up and not talking on msn either. 30 days ago he suddenly talked to me on msn and asked if I was interested in meeting up. Yeah sure..So I met him 4 weeks ago for the first date.
The first date (5th of may)was good we had dinner and talked about ourselves a bit. Then he drove me home afterward. We kept texting or calling each other during the week, at least one msg a day.
We met up again one week after(13th of may), and we end up kissing each other, that was great too, still kept tenting during the week then we had the third date (18th of may) and we end up had sex..I was really regret afterwards because I felt a bit guilty..And afraid of he's not calling anymore..However. He texted the next morning and asked how did I feel..Then I felt happy again, so we kept in tough until 27th of may. Even we kept in touch but I haven't seen him since 18th of may.
He seems really busy because he bought a new boat and doing some course at night time, I understand that but he stopped texting me since 27th of may. Its been three days since the last time I received his msg.
I text him on 25th of may asked if he had anything planned on Sunday(30th of may) and he said he prob free on Sunday night...But I didn't hear anything from him about meeting up again...
I really like him, he seems a decent guy , but is he losing interested in me? Should I ask him out for the fourth date?If so and how?
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I think he is interested, you are just makin yourself too available, constently makin plans after each date instaed of just takin things slow and not focus so much on when you are going to see him again. A lot of guys don't like it when a woman makes herslef so available, seemingly like you have nothing else to do besides date him. Kind of back off a bit, your wanting to see him too much and he senses that, hon. yall are dating and its good to sometimes just let things come up unexpected sometimes and let him chase you. Right now, he is a little quiet because he needs a little space from you. So chill out and if he really liked you and hasn't heard from you in a while, he will call again and this time don't mention when am I gonna see you again because you already done that enough. Let him be the one to do that and when he does, say ok. But know this: Don't focus on him so much to where every time he wants to see you, you are always available to because it will start to look like you have no life and that he is solely responsible for entertaining you. A guy likes a woman who hangs out with her friends sometimes or has things to do sometimes. you know? But yeah, tone it down a bit because it does look like he is losing a bit interest so now is the time, to stop contacting and let him come to you.2
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