Not to long ago I just go out of a bad relationship... I gave the person I was with my virginity and after that he told everyone and then he told me he just wanted to be friends, after that he apologized and I accepted it like a dumba** he tricked me into giving him my gold ring my mom gave me and I pretty much did a lot for him I was there when no one else was and then I found out he was cheating on me and was living with the girl ...Every night I cry and wish I had never met him and wish I had my virginity and my ring and whenever I date someone I'm not happy and I don't ever think I will be happy and sometimes I get so depressed to the point I don't wanna leave my house... I was 16 at the time and he was 23...could I b damaged for ever? and if not how can I over come this?
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You will not be damaged forever unless you choose to be. If it has not been long since you were out of the relationship, you need to give yourself more time to grieve this. During the grieving you need to forgive yourself for mistaking this guy as worthy of your love. I have no doubt inside yourself you blame yourself for not recognizing him for the ass he is.
Part of the process of getting better can be responding to young girls on this site who ask if it is wise to be with an older guy. You were underage and this guy was an adult. He took advantage of your age and your trust. Help other girls learn from your lesson and you will be able to have the satisfaction that you will help someone avoid this and that something positive will have come from your situation.1