I notice that a lot of people have a problem dating someone who has 3 or more kids. Honestly, are you turned off if you met a guy or girl that you think is so sexy but when they tell you they have 5 kids and they are in there early 20s, that could totally alter your interest? If so, why? Lets say you never even see the kids because they live with the other parent but you just know they have 5 kids. Why could that be a deal breaker for most?
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I think its to much responsibility to fast. He may not have kids of his own and a lot of times being there for the pregnancy and the 9 months leading up gives the guys an idea of what they have in store for them. Him finding out you have 5 kids is like putting him on the spot right that minute to be ready to deal with this.
If the kids are with your ex there are still going to be times you want to see them. And he will end up being put in an awkward situation with the children wanting to know who he is and him just being there with your ex.0