What should I expect while dating someone who is 21 years old and 9 years younger than myself?
What types of issues are there?
What are the benefits?
What turns these girls on/off?
Most Helpful Girl
Depends on the girl but overall think back to how you have changed since you were 21.
Around that age, you are more idealistic. So many things are new to you and you want to explore life. Going out to clubs and staying out until 4 or 5 in the morning regularly could hold great charm to her. She may simply have more energy than you to stay up and party. Of course, not all 21 year olds party but many do. Another challenge is hanging out with her AND her friends. You may connect with her but her friends could be a different story.
I disagree with kittycat933 and her assessment of sex drive. When I was in my early 20's I was more uptight and uncomfortable with my sexuality. In my 40's that has all changed and my sex drive is through the roof. I have dated several guys in their 20's and their complaints about 20 something girls is that they are not necessarily the best in bed, but, again, that does not apply to all girls in their 20's. I think the biggest issue they experience is that for older women sex is important and we enjoy it for what it is. Girls in their 20's can see sex as something you do as part of getting the guy, not necessarily just for the sex.
So, just do what you would do with any girl you date. Go on dates, get to know her, find out what she likes and how she likes to spend her time and you will know more about her tastes and the rhythm to her life.0