the guy that I'm hooking up with, not dating really just friends with benefits says he doesn't like to kiss...is that the truth or does he just not like to kiss me? I like to kiss but we only do when I initiate it not him...a lot of my friends say its probably because he doesn't want to get too attached to me but I don't know if they're just saying that...and also he says he's not committing to me because he feels like whether we were together or not he would probably cheat if some other girl was all over him...I've told him I don't want to stay friends with benefits forever...do you think it will ever be fully committed? he says he has feelings for me other than the fact that we hook-up and that he enjoys hanging out with me...sorry for the long novel...thanks for the advice!
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I don't think it has anything to do with you being a bad kisser or anything like that, I honestly think your friends are right with the whole, not wanting to get too attached. kissing can be a pretty personal thing. I've noticed that guys who are just in it for a hook up won't kiss as much as guys that are in it for more then that. although, then again, maybe he just doesn't really like to kiss.1