I'm gonna be a junior next year and I still haven't had a boyfriend or even been asked out by a guy. I see butt-ugly girls, dimwits, and just plain bitchy girls with boyfriends all the time, why not me?
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Absolutely nothing wrong with you...
The problem in high school is that you don't get noticed unless you stand out. Try to do things to differentiate yourself from the other girls. Don't always follow the crowd, and in particular, make sure you're not buried behind a clique of other girls because that makes it harder for guys to come up and approach you.
The most likely reason you haven't been approached is because guys don't know you that well.
Also, it helps if you figure out what guys you're interested in and throw them a few signals. I'm pretty sure that's how all the other girls you know got their boyfriends.
More often than not, girls do actually make the first move even if it's a very subtle move. This is particularly true in high school, where guys are immature, insecure and don't know what they're doing (of course girls are just as bad). A shy guy is unlikely to make a move on any girl unless he thinks she's already interested in him. Even then, if he's really shy, it's going to take quite a bit of courage...
In fact, I'm pretty sure that the only kind of guy that age who will go up to a girl in a completely unsolicited way is a guy who thinks he's a player. The exception might be if it's something like prom, where it doesn't feel as weird to ask a random girl out.
That doesn't mean that there aren't guys who already have some kind of crush on you, but they're waiting for you to notice them...and so your job is to figure out who those guys are, and well notice them.0