If you reject a guy once then change your mind he'll just feel like it didn't work out with some other guy and your his second choice. He also might think that you can't make up you mind or you're playing games with him.
Sometimes attraction does grow once you get to know a person. Also if you're looking for marriage material look for someone who's loyal and will love you. One day you're both going to be old and wrinkley and what you look like today isn't going to matter but how they treat you will.
Also sometimes guys don't quite know how to act in an attractive way to women 24/7 but could do it for foreplay if you communicate your desires (especially if he's a good looking guy). A lot of people don't communicate and that's why they're constantly single or keep bouncing from relationship to relationship.
Also trying to get a guy back after rejecting him is selfish. It's like a slap in the face and then being like oh sorry I didn't mean it when deep down you're about to do it again because you're not attracted physically. It'll just be playing and toying with his emotions. Just leave him be.
Though if you're going to try to get him back you're going to have to work your ass off for him to trust you and that will require you to put a crap ton of effort into the relationship.
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Regardless whether you were right ot wrong to reject him, he should not take you back.
If he's really into you he probably will. I dated a guy 4.5 years that I really was t sexually attracted to. He was after me for 6 months before I did go out with him and just considered him a really good friend. Not to sound conceited but physically I was way out of his league. You don't be have to be sexually attracted but attracted to the sex. We had amazing sex and he was mr right now at the time. AMazing guy and I will always be tight with him but I knew I wouldn't marry him so I broke it off. But we had a great relationship
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You sound very shallow.
For his sake I say you shouldn't, he is better off with a girl who won't flip flop on him.you made the right decision I would say
you need attraction among a few other things
it's normal
you are young, you'll be fineThen he wasn't the perfect guy. What made him unattractive?
No you shouldn't
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