Guys,
How picky are you about a woman's body?
I am a slim girl, my one notably nice bodily feature is my thin, hourglass waist. And some people think my face is attractive. Otherwise, I have a rather small chest, 32B, and my butt is somewhat shapeless. My most unattractive part of the body are legs. I am thin, but still have cellulite on my butt and legs, they are noticeably shapeless otherwise. Plus, there's patches of purple spider veins and stretchmarks behind my legs & calves (never been pregnant). i try to work out & be healthy, i do squats regularly, but I think this is my genetic construction.
I have been talking to a guy who wants to start going out. He seems like a pretty serious guy, not just messing around. But I know being physically attracted to a girl's body matters. He hasn't really seen my body yet, and being that summer is near, i am scared to face wearing shorts/swimwear because my bottom body looks so unattractive. I know some say if someone truly cares for me they will accept me. Also, I've heard that a girl with confidence is the most attractive. But I also know many modern men see all sorts of things online & have high standards like never before. Its difficult to be confident when you realize how you fall so short of what is considered attractive. I feel like i dont have any redeeming features as a woman as far as what many guys talk about, "nice breasts, nice butt, nice legs." what if a gal dont have any of those. Is she just destined to be single? Can someone still be attracted?
Plus this guy is rather good looking. I'm prepared to get rejected if he sees my body. I am wondering if i should just tell him that i cannot go out with him. I had a boyfriend before who commented on his dissatisfaction with parts of my body. it is a rather painful thing to hear because i can't do much about it.
Have any of you been attracted to a girl with a body type considered "unattractive" by social standards?
How picky are you about a woman's body?
I am a slim girl, my one notably nice bodily feature is my thin, hourglass waist. And some people think my face is attractive. Otherwise, I have a rather small chest, 32B, and my butt is somewhat shapeless. My most unattractive part of the body are legs. I am thin, but still have cellulite on my butt and legs, they are noticeably shapeless otherwise. Plus, there's patches of purple spider veins and stretchmarks behind my legs & calves (never been pregnant). i try to work out & be healthy, i do squats regularly, but I think this is my genetic construction.
I have been talking to a guy who wants to start going out. He seems like a pretty serious guy, not just messing around. But I know being physically attracted to a girl's body matters. He hasn't really seen my body yet, and being that summer is near, i am scared to face wearing shorts/swimwear because my bottom body looks so unattractive. I know some say if someone truly cares for me they will accept me. Also, I've heard that a girl with confidence is the most attractive. But I also know many modern men see all sorts of things online & have high standards like never before. Its difficult to be confident when you realize how you fall so short of what is considered attractive. I feel like i dont have any redeeming features as a woman as far as what many guys talk about, "nice breasts, nice butt, nice legs." what if a gal dont have any of those. Is she just destined to be single? Can someone still be attracted?
Plus this guy is rather good looking. I'm prepared to get rejected if he sees my body. I am wondering if i should just tell him that i cannot go out with him. I had a boyfriend before who commented on his dissatisfaction with parts of my body. it is a rather painful thing to hear because i can't do much about it.
Have any of you been attracted to a girl with a body type considered "unattractive" by social standards?
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