I would like to know, when females go on dates, how many dates or months should she date to have sex with the person that's she is dating? and what do guys think of females when they give it up with the second or third date?
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I think you need to buy the entire series of sex and the city and watch it from start to finish--yes it is not real but most of the stories are based on events in the writers lives. I personally think that it is up to the two people involved. If you want to have sex after the first date that is on you but if he loses interest after you have to know that if is more than likely because you were no longer a conquest. If you like the guy and want to marry him or see him as marriage material then you should probably wait at least 6 months, let him get to know you and like you--guys are supposed to enjoy a chase. Personally, I waited to have sex with men for long periods (8 months plus) of time and they turned out to be losers anyway. I would now test the goods after maybe 5 dates to see if I like him sexually because if not you will be wasting time. I don't think guys really put a number of dates on how quickly they will judge you if you sleep with them but I do think if he likes you he likes you and if you both want each other sexually you should take the precautions and tempt fate. YOu have to decide ultimately and take to the guy about his feelings about sex on the first date or sex in general to gauge what you think would be appropriate to him. If he comes from a background of virtues and morals that wait until you feel you have established some ground and a stable relationship---maybe wait until you are officially his girlfriend.4