How do you know if an introvert likes you back?

[luckyguy11]

to all the introverts: I mean, what signs do you show when you like someone?
so, there's this girl who I like and we talk over our phone. I'm really comfortable with her and she's really understanding.
but she never really talks much. I mean, sometimes she does. but most of the time I'm the one talking. so, I'm there like thinking that it's probably because she's an introvert. introverts keep things to themselves.
but um, should she start sharing things with me more if she likes me back?
or is there any other way to know?
I'm just confused. I wanna ask her out sometime. but it's awkward. cause we're like super nice to each other and I don't know if she'd like the idea of us really hanging out together.
so, I wanna know - how do I know if she likes me back?
PS: tips on getting an introvert to like you would also be appreciated.
thanks.

[CubsterShura]

I'm always very friendly with everyone so most introverts are comfortable with sharing their feelings with me. They tell me straight away.

[Cinnamon-Dun]

Even an introvert will open up to you if they like you. Even if they don't open up to anyone else, they will to you.

[luckyguy11]

like I said, she actually does share things with me. but I'm not sure if how much she shares with me is enough to tell that she likes me back. like she could be somewhat the same with her other friends too. I don't really know.

[Cinnamon-Dun]

I say if you're questioning if the evidence you have is enough, you know the answer you're seeking already.

[luckyguy11]

I'm really confused if I know or not.
I'll still try to figure it tho.
thanks by the way. ✌

[Westy616]

I don't open up to women I like and I'm an introvert. I wish I could...

[luckyguy11]

wow. this gives a whole new perspective. tell me more?
what signs do you show when you like someone?

[Westy616]

I think about them a lot, though that's not a sign. It's hard coming from me since I tend to almost withdraw when I like a girl. I withdraw sometimes to "protect" myself. I sometimes give a smile, but not obvious... just something to show I don't mean no harm.

I'm not a risk taker, so as a guy who may be seen as the usual initiator in society for relationships, it may explain why I've never had a girlfriend. However, it's probably different for women.

[luckyguy11]

yeah! you're right.
I guess it is different with women. anyway, thanks dude. 👍 I hope get a girl for yourself!

[Anonymous]

They will act more extroverted around you. They will sometimes throw themselves out of their comfort zone and talk to you.

[luckyguy11]

like?

[Opinion Owner]

They'll act weird around you. Sometimes it'll be more obvious than if an extrovert likes you because an extrovert tries to hide it, but an introvert occasionally tries to show it. They'll follow you around, initiate conversations more, and make more eye contact with you more than others in their vicinity. They're nervous about it, but they want you to notice them.

[luckyguy11]

that's something a bit difficult to decipher. 😅 I'll try figure it out.
thanks tho.

[Opinion Owner]

no problem, good luck!

[the3ghzpc]

do you know any of her friends? ask them, and u may just get ur answer

[luckyguy11]

nope. I don't really talk to her friends.

[the3ghzpc]

then just ask her how she feels about u

[luckyguy11]

what if she doesn't and what we have rn would be all messed up? I'm scared. of rejection.

[the3ghzpc]

ik how u feel. i liked a girl for 6 years. i never really told her or asked. i finally figured i might. i didn't work, but i found someone else. sometimes something bad has to happen for something good to happen.

[luckyguy11]

that's true.
hmm. thanks, mate.

[the3ghzpc]

np :)