I have a friends with benefits thing with a guy who's 45 & has ended up being the best lover. He's not only very well endowed but a beast in bed.
There's one problem. The first night was fantastic as I had never felt like that as I had with him. The second night was horrible. He would get mad because I would climax too much, or because his bedsheets were disheveled (that's what happens during sex, right?), yell at me or make remarks that this isn't going to last forever. I nearly cried.
I digged into his past and discovered he's a real estate investor (makes sense because he lives in a nice place) BUT has an extensive criminal record (reckless driving, violence toward an ex, violence toward a guy, possession & distribution of drugs).
I decided to be nice despite how he treated me since he has polycythemia (a rare form of blood cancer) and wrote him a letter thanking him for being a good in between in my life but that I had seen my ex-boyfriend (this was a lie as I haven't seen my ex in months) and discovered he's the love of my life (this part is true). I told him that he was amazing and that he should let go of his anger issues and forgive those who had hurt him. This was supposed to put a period in our brief history.
He texted me but never mentioned the letter. I regretted sending such a long letter to someone I hardly know and told him to not open it. He said he wouldn't and invited me to his place. I should have declined but didn't. I got there and on his counter was the empty envelope. He wasn't mad and said it was sweet.
That afternoon was the most amazing sex I've ever had with any guy in my life. In fact, he was very sweet unlike the second time. He was also forthcoming. He ended up showing me pictures of himself and telling me about his life growing up and how hard it was. In fact, he even showed me his mugshots. He also asked me if this was really the last time. I said no. I don't know why Or even if the letter changed him that much? Should I end this?
There's one problem. The first night was fantastic as I had never felt like that as I had with him. The second night was horrible. He would get mad because I would climax too much, or because his bedsheets were disheveled (that's what happens during sex, right?), yell at me or make remarks that this isn't going to last forever. I nearly cried.
I digged into his past and discovered he's a real estate investor (makes sense because he lives in a nice place) BUT has an extensive criminal record (reckless driving, violence toward an ex, violence toward a guy, possession & distribution of drugs).
I decided to be nice despite how he treated me since he has polycythemia (a rare form of blood cancer) and wrote him a letter thanking him for being a good in between in my life but that I had seen my ex-boyfriend (this was a lie as I haven't seen my ex in months) and discovered he's the love of my life (this part is true). I told him that he was amazing and that he should let go of his anger issues and forgive those who had hurt him. This was supposed to put a period in our brief history.
He texted me but never mentioned the letter. I regretted sending such a long letter to someone I hardly know and told him to not open it. He said he wouldn't and invited me to his place. I should have declined but didn't. I got there and on his counter was the empty envelope. He wasn't mad and said it was sweet.
That afternoon was the most amazing sex I've ever had with any guy in my life. In fact, he was very sweet unlike the second time. He was also forthcoming. He ended up showing me pictures of himself and telling me about his life growing up and how hard it was. In fact, he even showed me his mugshots. He also asked me if this was really the last time. I said no. I don't know why Or even if the letter changed him that much? Should I end this?
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